i dont have any friends who are boys !! are u as weird as I am??
2007-12-12 00:58:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm 15 and never had a bf
Who cares?
My time will come and yours will too.
You are 18 and try just focusing on your career. Focus on yourself and your goals. A boyfriend may just get in the way. You will find someone at some point. Just don't worry.
You fly high. Maybe some of the guys haven't spread their wings and joined you yet. lol
2007-12-12 01:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you are old enough to know the secret about successful dating. Firstly don't get wrapped up in the notion of finding a bf, the more energy you put into it the worse you will be. That's called 'settling' and that's bad. The trick is to remain neutral and uninterested, even focus on your life and bettering it, the bf will come in time. But the more neutral and level headed you stay the better chances that somebody amazing will come along.
Also know that you attract people that parallel your life, and where it is at. So if you are considering going to college or getting a real job after school, that sort then don't start dating when you are in transitional phases. Your bf will never play catch up or have the same ambitions that you do. You will be tearing out your hair trying to 'change him' and get him motivated to be doing the same things you are doing. That never works. You need to wait till you are at the next level yourself then you will attract people with the same ambitions as you. You get what you give, quite frankly.
Also know that for the most part people don't even remember the first few partners they had in life. Some don't even remember their names. So know that the first few people you date most likely won't be a good match for you. But it's good to get out there and date for sure, that way you can figure out what sort of people make you happy.
2007-12-12 01:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
i am a doctor..but here i talk to you like a friend..
so ,you are 18..
but that does not mean that you need a bf definitely.
you should be careful when you go for a relationship..
things can look flashy , but be careful
do not be emotional or sad and settle for any guy you see.
take your time.
get to know people.but at the same time start a relationship with the guy who you think is right.
a relationship is not about physical attraction only.
it is something more deep.
try to understand the people around you.
there is no point to get a bf for the sake of gettin one.
if you do that for the sake of it, you would not get into a good and fruiful relationship..
just take your time..
assess what you want in life..
find a guy who will help you to get those..
not a sexual fanatic..
try to get that guy who loves you.. not you body..
it would take some time.. but if you are on the alert, and if you choose wisely, you will get that guy for sure..
good luck..
2007-12-12 04:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont just get a boyfriend is not like going down to your local supermarket and picking out a peace of meat from the deli. Dont think just because you have turned 18 that now you have to have a boyfriend because you dont. There are allot of girls in society today who are career orientated and leave the boy stuff to last. I strongly believe that you should be patient because that special someone is out there waiting for you, let nature take its course. And no your not weird.
2007-12-12 01:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when the time is right and the person is right. I think it would be a mistake to get a BF just because you are 18 you never know what you might end up with. The one will come and youll know it. You should try just going out on dates with different types of people to see what suits you best.
2007-12-12 01:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by joshuathebac 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no time limit. I was 21 when I had my first real B/F. I had one in High school but it was a pity date. When you met someone you'll know. I have always had boys that were friends and there really cool however it always turns to an attraction. Don't worry be patient.
2007-12-12 01:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hey There 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking obviously your not ready......So wait until the time is right Hun don't ask others the feeling will just come to you bf ain't all that really apart from more stress and aggro in some cases but don't rush do it in your time,,Men are always going to be there no rush.
2007-12-12 01:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely - the world will open up to you. Once I started having friends that were boys I realized how easy they were to talk to, and never really sugar-coated their answers. Sooner or later, a "friend" will turn into a "boyfriend".
2007-12-12 01:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by redslippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're 18 doesnt mean you need to have a b/f I am 28 and dont have one. My sister is 25 and doesnt have one. You will have a b/f when the time is right.
2007-12-12 01:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you never had one? I mean sometimes you just can't find the right guy till later on. I've never dated someone at my school, so if I didn't meet guys elsewhere I wouldn't have had one either ha ha. It's not weird, you're fine sweetie. You'll find someone in college most likely. =)
2007-12-12 01:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋