2007-12-11 23:27:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think so... especially if you want it to last. I think it'd be harder to be lovers and then try to be friends
2007-12-12 05:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by :-) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Baby, Yes I believe it is the only way to go. You really get to know the person and see anything in this person that causes you to be uncomfortable.Talk open and honest and never hide anything from one and the other. Friends before Lovers I do agree.
A Friend,
poppy1
2007-12-12 16:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sweetheart and I met right here on yahoo answers and started emailing each other soon afterwards and developed a friendship based on trust, respect and admiration for each other and really geting to know each other. This went on for several months and I would always be thrilled when she would write me. Then we started calling each other and during our first phone call, I realized that I was in love with her. All this without ever having met in person. Then we met in person finally in Dec 2006 and it was as if we had known each other all of our lives. Now we are together and living here in Georgia and a very happy couple.
2007-12-12 00:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually my ex-husband and I were friends first and it didn't work out, my husband now and I dove right into our relationship and have been married for 13 yrs now, but we did live together for two yrs first which I am so glad that we did, it showed us that we could handle each others annoying habits okay, I am sure that there are a lot of people out there that were friends first and it worked out well for them, just depends on the couple I guess.
2007-12-12 00:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always...my husband and I were lovers first, and now we're best friends as well.*
2007-12-12 01:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Check this out! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because when you finally break up you will lose not only a lover, but a friend as well.
2007-12-12 08:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bunny Boiler 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, the less he/she knows before being lovers, the better !
2007-12-11 23:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best, doesn't always happen but it is. My husband and I were great friends before we stepped up to that level. It's great because you can always talk to them as your friend and they don't judge. Being married you can still do that.
2007-12-11 23:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a chance at having a long term relationship based on something beside your physical attraction I think you need to be friends first!
2007-12-12 16:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to like a person first, then you can learn to love and then become lovers....its a process......
2007-12-12 03:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋