Ever Been Rejected or Ignored By Someone You Know?

Question

For no apparent reason at all? For instance, I added several people that I knew from college. One of them happened to block me although I did not add this person. Some others did not claim me as a friend although I did nothing wrong to them. I even knew these people and thought they were nice. Turns out they were not the people that I know and used to think they were real friends.

To be honest, I was a little hurt by the rejection from some of the people that I used to know from college. Has anybody else experienced this same situation?

Your responses would be appreciated greatly.

Answer 1

Don't wear your feelings on your sleeves, never let yourself feel rejected and/or ignored. There is no other person that walks this earth that sits higher than you so as to look down to reject and as far as the ignoring thing, they aren't really ignoring you, they are probably less secure with themselves than you are and they find this to be an issue, it is their issue. not yours. Keep on going, don't miss a beat because of this. God Bless.

Answer 2

Rejection is one of the most painful experiences that a person can go through.

The only real preventive cure for that is to accept yourself first off and then become the person whom you would most likely be attracted to and soon you will find many other people like you who want to know you.

People change and nothing is the way it was with very few exceptions.

I tried contacting a few old college friends with whom I thought I shared a lot of things until I found out that we were worlds apart after getting to re know them.

Don’t let it get to you. Make new friends and move on and no you cannot change anybody else—sometimes not even yourself.

Answer 3

i know a girl i have been wonderful to and have known
for years. she went from warm, loving, and friendly to
being entirely the opposite. i got tired of her treating me
badly for no reason so now i have nothing to do with her.
unfortunatley that happens to all of us. obviously we found out
these people were not our friends. people change, sometimes for the worse. if you knew what i have done for
this girl and see how badly she treated me for no reason you
would be amazed. she started to associate with someone i
think is a bad person and obviously her bad influence has
had its negative impact on her. i am pretty sure, almost
postive she is doing this to other people. she is only hurting
herself. also, i think after all of these years, she maybe showing her true colors. i hope this helps, good luck.