If I have the money on my phone I will usually call people and find out how they are. I am quite sociable and have many friends/acquaintances but no one ever calls me back. I feel so lonely.
I have asked if I have offended them or whatever and they just say no, was busy etc. But No one EVER calls me except my one friend and we have been friends for about 10 years.
2007-12-11 21:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dude my mum is the only one who calls me :P
I don't let it get me down XD
Maybe try texting :D
2007-12-11 21:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by b 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sadly we can think that we are ignored for some reason, we often can feel that we are lacking in ourselves when people don't call us back.
consider that these people really are busy, you yourself see telephone calls as important but some people just dont.
If it is still an issue you could have a conference meeting and tell them all that you need more calls and then see what happens.
I am sad for you, but i urge you to try to think of some answers to maybe hook up with other people who like to use the phone. Good luck.
2007-12-11 21:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by heardcrombie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well, you said yourself that you call people the other time. The simple answer would be that your friends/acqauintances figure that you'll call them eventually anyway. Also you have to see things from a different perspective. Just because you're this incredible sociable person, doesn't necessarily mean that they are as well. Some people just don't call people on a whim.
2007-12-11 21:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by That chick 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is like that for most people. I have tons of people on my phone that NEVER call me back and I used to get offended but now I brush it off. If you just leave them alone for a while they will eventually call you and invite you out. Cherish the one friend you have though, because that person does care enough to call and hang out.
2007-12-11 21:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they know that you will call so they simply wait for you to do the calling. A lot of people are like that. Rude and lazy and take advantage of others. I have experienced this in other situations.
My advice would be to stop calling them and see what happens. Everytime you think about calling them, find something else to do. The ones who really care will call you.
2007-12-11 21:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from being the kind of friend that never returns phone calls, that you shouldn't take it personally. A lot of people are very busy, and some people, (like me), just forget to call people back.
2007-12-11 21:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by calimari 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because you're acting desperate.
Nobody likes desperate.
Just talk to them when you meet them,
If you keep haggling them on the phone, they'll avoid you.
Have patience.
2007-12-11 21:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me even though my friend does'nt always call me, it doesnt mean they forgot about me, i'm just trying to understand them. maybe they're just really busy. what important is that when i hav a problem they always there to comfort me, personally.
2007-12-11 21:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by raichie_05 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋