2007-12-11 21:06:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sorry,,> Advice !! ,,,,,come on ,,,its early,,,ughhh
2007-12-11 21:12:10 · update #1
Papa's got a brand new pigbag.
2007-12-11 21:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by ross x 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down alone with him and have a serious heart-to-heart talk. You need to tell him exactly how you feel about this relationship. The longer you put it off, the more it will hurt him in the long run, especially if he's starting to make plans for your future together. Maybe he's been having the same second thoughts. The only way to find out is to ask him how he feels. I agree with your friend. Maybe you should tell him that you want to break it off for awhile. At least then, when you tell him later that you don't want to get back together again, it won't be so emotionally traumatic. I would seriously think about cancelling your birthday party for his sake. Asking him to come was a mistake, but not inviting him would hurt him. At least by cancelling it, you won't hurt him while not giving him mixed signals about how you feel about him. Lying to him by telling him that you just don't like long-term relationships may be a merciful way of letting him down. Usually I don't condone lying, but for a break-up, I consider it a justifiable method of letting the other person down easier. Don't tell him that he isn't good enough, or that you want someone better than him. That will only hurt him mentally and emotionally. Just have this conversation with him as soon as possible.
2016-05-23 04:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by julieta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite simply.....because people want you to tell them what they want to hear.
Unless it's some kind of technical question that requires a well thought out answer, then all people want (subconsciencely) is for you to agree with what they are feeling when they ask their question.
Case in point: right now if I really wanted your "best answer" score then I would have just lied and told you that I have been reviewing some of your answers and the askers were just completely insane not to give you the points!!!
See what I'm talking about?
Take care....and great question, by the way. Very thought provoking.
2007-12-11 21:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seeking a best answer? If you get one, will it give you a reason to continue living? Perhaps if you're upset about not getting a best answer, your advice was not that genuine and sincere in the first place. Just be honest with others, and more importantly, yourself. Everything else will fall into place after that.
2007-12-11 21:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sundrop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call yourself not getting best answers? What about me? I got less best answers than you, dude! Maybe the great advice in your eyes isn't that great to other people. When I least expects a best answer, I have a few. So, who knows?
2007-12-11 21:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Brendiie™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bahahahahaha
2007-12-11 21:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause some people dont know good advise when it slaps em in the face babe.
xxx
2007-12-12 04:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Silence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people choose their own best answer, they often choose the advice they want to hear, not the best advice. and when it comes down to a vote, people just vote for the first answer they see, as this will earn them a point regardless. it is one of yahoo answers' biggest flaws
2007-12-11 21:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by mr. me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It took me 2 months to get my first Best Answer. Stick with it they'll start coming soon.
2007-12-11 21:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Quizard 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they're looking for great answers, not great advise. But that's just my opinion.
2007-12-11 21:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋