when I get close to a lady and want to be honest and open, I always wonder if I should tell her that I like looking at men on the net. also want to perform oral sex on them. I am mostly straight, but can not deny the other. At what point in a relationship should I tell a woman about this? She may freak!
2007-12-11 19:32:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let me give emphasis to this fact. When walking down the street, men NEVER turn my head. Only women can turn my head. I have never had romantic feelings towards any man..only women. I don't think of men unless on the internet.
2007-12-11 19:47:09 · update #1
Why not tell her? You told us, after all.
2007-12-11 19:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You really should tell her. But it's up to her to accept.
You should tell her at a point when you think both of you are gonna be together for long-term and may be getting married. Don't tell her too late when so many promises made and when there are already the commitment.
If you're thinking of being with this lady for long-term... Then don't wait any longer. Tell her some time soon when appropriate. But like i've said earlier, it's up to her to accept.
2007-12-11 19:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bellem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have the desire to look at naked men, and you want to performe oral sex on them, i would say that you are bi-sexual and you need to be honest with her, and just tell her about it; she may be o.k. with it, and then again, she may not, but you do need to man up to. Good luck, i know it is easier said then done!
2007-12-11 22:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, you're at the LEAST bi-sexual and I think you might be telling women this because you want to sabotage the relationship and that takes you one step closer to living the life you really want to live. Come out of the closet and be happy.
2007-12-11 19:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to be totally comfortable with her and vice versa. if she loves you and then she should be understanding. i cant promise that she will be okay with the fact that you find men arrousing. if this is something that you need to be a part of your life then it should be. if your partner isnt okay with this then you have a decision to make. you can either find someone who is okay with this or edit your desire for men out of your life. its really up to you to decide what you want and what you need. best wishes and i hope everything turns out great for you. good luck
2007-12-11 19:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by autumn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her how she feels about homosexuality in general. Then ask her how would she feel if one of her family members was homosexual. Inch your way in. Ask non-self-targeting questions. Test the water first. Good luck.
2007-12-11 19:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by hellkrasher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are as straight as I am white. Time for a reality check.
2007-12-11 19:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Plano 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Being gay is like wearing socks in the bathtub **** don't make sence
2007-12-11 20:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are
1:gay
2:in denial
3:just come out of the freaking closet already!
2007-12-11 19:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly? never. unless you actually plan on pursuing any of those fantasies, it won't do any good to mention it.
2007-12-11 19:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋