ok so when we have sex .. my bf jus pull out before instead of coming inside me... but everyone is scaring me now telllin me that i could still get pregnant....?
am i pregnant now.. or can i be? i had my last menses on nov 23
and we did it a number of times since then... ?
am i screwed?
the dates we did it on was a few days after my period was done... last week on dec 5th .. and yesterday
whenever we do it.. he cums outside me.. but then we rest and we start again... he comes average 3 times everytime
i am very dizzy for the past few days... and also feel like my period is coming already.. can i be pregnant?
2007-12-11 16:27:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The pull out "METHOD" is not a method at all. You have such a high chance of getting pregnant still. Use a condom and/or some other for of birth control(sponge, pills, etc.) Take a test after you miss your period.
Edit: IF you can't even say penis, you probably shouldn't be having sex.
2007-12-11 16:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Behind Green Eyes 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From what u have said.. u are not pregnant at all!
There are ways to tell if you are pregnant before you can test though, u could just had tender breasts and just felt pregnant. Alot of women get cravings, sickness, nausea etc right from the start but alot of women get no symptoms at all so best wait until your period is due and take the test ot obviously if your period comes then you probably arent pregnant.
It usually takes about three weeks to one month to know whether u are pregnant or not. the best way is to do a preg test after three weeks of ur last intercourse. Or u can wait till u have ur mensus,( provided u are not pregnant ).Anyway looking at ur period date ( 23 nov ), u should get ur period in about 20-25 dec. That means u still have time.
P.s As a caution, try not to have unprotected sex or ejaculation inside after two days of ur last day of mensus. It is not so safe. ( the best stretch is 5 days.. but thats risky)
2007-12-12 00:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are too young to be having sex if you don't know the answer to this. OF course you can get pregnant. It's called pre-***. it happens before your bf ejaculates. It's still spern just not as much. Hey I would know, thats how I got pregnant.
By the way, having a baby is a blessing, not a curse. If you feel different then maybe you should be using protection or not having sex at all!!
2007-12-12 00:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
F.Y.I I have 4 kids and my husband and I use the pull out method of family planning. My first three kids are each 16 months apart. So that will tell you how effective it is. Not very. But we are married and want lots of kids. It dosent sound to me like you are in that situation. I suggest you get on birth control, use a condom, or stop having sex. Also you need to be aware of the possiblity of contracting a S.T.D. its no joke and it very well may happen to you. You very well may be pregnate already. You can take a test after you are 2 weeks late. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-12-12 00:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shell 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i assume you mean his penis...The rhythm method is 60-80% effective in preventing pregnancy. yes, you very well could be pregnant. you're most fertile in the middle of your cycle, 2 weeks or so after your period ends. He has sperm in his pre-ejaculate, you know, the clear fluid that leaks out of his penis after he's been hard for a few minutes. that could get you pregnant. buy some condoms or get on the pill, use VCF, it's a film that's inserted 15 minutes to 3 hours before sex, you still feel everything but no baby worry
2007-12-12 00:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by rubberchicken 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wo- how nice for the two of you. And no- ppl are not trying to scare you they are telling the truth. Pulling out is not effective AT ALL for ANYTHING. You can get any disease with no barrier and there can still be sperm in his pre-c*m to get you pregnant. So plz--buy some condoms AND get on the pill unless your ready in every way to have a baby.
2007-12-12 00:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Parker Bailey born 4/1/09 9lb 1o 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well sweetheart
i must tell u that it is possible to get pregnant, and people scaring you about it, is not the only thing you wil have to worry about soon if you dont start using your brain.
if you dont know what sex is all about and all the conseuences that go with it than you simply just shouldnt be doing it
grow up some more before pretending that you can take on a lot more responsibilities than you actually can.
2007-12-12 00:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by x..Cassie..x 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is the most unreliable form of birth control. Even if he pulls out, he can still get some in you and get your pregnant.
You could be pregnant now but you'll have to see if your period is late and if it is test. If you are not pregnant already, please use some other form of protection.
2007-12-12 00:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by busemomme 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yeah you can get pregnant from the pull out method. Looks like you need to start using protection!
Take a home pregnancy test if you miss your next period.
2007-12-12 00:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by ~They call me MOMMY~ 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can get pregnant from pre-***. Get a pregnancy test to be sure. You should be on birth control or using condoms every time.
2007-12-12 00:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by ruth m 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋