we are divorced and i tell her i still love her very much and she says ok. then i ask her if it is alright that i say i love you and she says its ok i can do what i want. does this mean anything
2007-12-11 15:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by ralph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds to me that she may still care for you, but not in a romantic way. If you two are already divorced then I suggest you let it go and be her friend. Who knows what the future holds, but for right now move on. Its obvious you are still hung up on her because you are still calling her your wife and you two arent even married any more. Why did you two split up, let me take a wild guess, she caught you cheating.
2007-12-11 15:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by jacqueline b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to not love someone you have shared so much time/memories with. When you sign the divorce papers it doesn't automatically cut off all memories and deep feelings for tha person.
She could still have some feelings for you.
Everyone has struggles and hard times in life and especially in relationships. It's too easy these days to let those hardships get in the way of our deeper feelings of love and compassion.
If you both still love each other, work it out and, take her on a date and get to know eachother again. People change over the years and if we don't constantly take time to get to know our spouses during those subtle changes, it's easy to lose our connection with them without even realizing it.
I may be wrong, but I try to be hopeful and a promoter of staying married. Good luck.
2007-12-11 23:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by nic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has moved on and the feelings inside you once both shared are dead for her now. I mean she doesn't love you the way you want to be and feel loved. Yet she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she says okay.
Your hurting yourself here. I know your not ready to let go. But in time you will. The sooner you start to heal and understand the better off you will be in the future.
2007-12-11 23:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she doesn't love you anymore. If she still loved you she would tell you. I think you should just try to forget about her and move on with your life. Stop wasting your time thinking about her. When shes saying ok you can do what you want... she is being sarcastic. Move on.
2007-12-11 23:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still do but no the same as before...maybe the kind of love she felt for you now is not what you expect it to be...if you're still doubting go ahead ask her but be prepared for her answers. Move on there are still a lot of women out there who can love you the way you want it to be.
2007-12-11 23:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ralph,
If she doesn,t tell you that she loves you too and instead tells you that it,s OK and you can do what you want then I wouldn,t put to much into it. Usually if you tell someone that you love them, you assume or hope that they Love you too.If they do then they will always respond that they love you too. Maybe she,s been hurt in the relationship and needs time to heal. Hope everything works out. Pray about it and seek the Lord.
2007-12-11 23:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by justMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesn't tell you she loves you back and all she sais is ok then i don't think she loves you. you should just move on and stop torturing yourself like that.
2007-12-11 23:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by over the rainbow girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loved you she would say it back. Maybe you need to move on, sounds like she has.
2007-12-11 23:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't love you- go find someone that does so that you can get REAL satisfaction for what you give out by it returning to you by the other person.
2007-12-11 23:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sailon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she cannot stop you. I would not say that she loves you from this.
2007-12-11 23:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋