I have never been able to orgasam. It has always felt good but that is it it will just stop when it reaches a point of starting to feel better then when we first start out. Basically it feels good and then just stops out of nowhere. Is that normal?
2007-12-11 14:50:55 · 30 answers · asked by brighteyesjfk 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have tried exploring by myself and I have tryed different toys. And stimulating my clitorus gets to be way too much really fast. But that is it so I am stuck I don't want to make anyone feel like they failed cause they couldn't get me to finish but I too want to know what that wonderful feeling feels like. I am stuck.
2007-12-11 14:55:57 · update #1
sadly, its the plight that most women suffer from. :(
2007-12-11 14:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ahh the infamous question! Well for me it was pretty much the same way. Then one day I got on top! Lol. I think you just haven't found your position yet. Meanwhile, and this might sound funny to you, but have you tried using a straight stream (removable if possible) shower head? You might have to explore a bit, but I'm pretty sure you'll get your g-spot. After that you'll know exactly where it is, and try to see what position best "hits" it. And don't give up, I didn't have my first until I was 21. And no it wasn't in the shower either! It was with my husband! I love that man!:) Before that I didn't beilive in it! Good luck and let me know if I was helpful, or not.
2007-12-11 15:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra956 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cant orgasam just from sex.I need clit stimulation or nothing happens. Doesnt matter what size his ding a ling is either. Nor what he does with it. Still nothing. Sex still feels good theres just no climax for me. I read in a magazine somewhere once that alot of girls are like that so yeah its pretty normal.
2007-12-11 14:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the only one. If it's important to you to get to the cause of this, there are two elements: physical and emotional. You should talk honestly with your doctor as hormonal imbalance may be to blame. Emotionally, you might try exploring the possibility of a fear of letting go and of trusting another person to bare yourself, emotionally speaking. This is what psychiatrists are for, and no it doesn't mean you're nuts or sick.
2007-12-11 14:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by wendy.bryan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say no...but Im a dude:) but I have never meet a chick I could not get to have one...most within 15min or so...no joke. Maybe do what I do....I love...LOVE foreplay..I spend at least 15min..minimum kissing up to 30min or more making out. Then few minutes of slow undress and more exploring at least 15min or more befor going to the show...I mainly spend 45 to a lil over an hour before the show....enjoying the behind the scenes...by the time we get going....Wham! 15 min or less:)
2007-12-11 14:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try doing it to yourself sometime when you have plenty of time and you can be relaxed and use any toys that you have. Just explore yourself, see what really feels good to you, and stay relaxed, don't worry. Remember it's just you. The more intense it starts to feel, the closer you are...don't stop what you're doing and you can feel so good !
GOOD LUCK !!
2007-12-11 19:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rhonda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much! Women are a little different than men. If you are looking for the orgasm, it is hard to find. Just enjoy what you feel. If you feel the need for something "More" to push you over the edge, try it. Sometimes, it is a certain spot, sometimes, it is the excitement, sometimes, it is the "danger" (what if someone sees). With 99 percent of the men (and I am one) it is about physical contact(when it is orgasm time)
2007-12-11 15:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by T C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normal or not. Look and try different ways to see if you can have a orgasam. I think anything is possable. Keep trying.
2007-12-11 14:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by t Preston 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok well, first, have you ever by yourself? a lot of women have trouble orgasming during sex - it is somewhat a myth created by popular culture that it happens all the time for women during sex. don't feel bad. just think about exploring different options that might help you, but for sure don't ever lose the feeling that it feels good, whether you orgasm or not.
2007-12-11 14:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by KJC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you have an injury or something. Try it by yourself with a little help from a toy and fantasy.
2007-12-11 14:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trying too hard. Don't think about it so much . Just relax and have fun with your partner. It will happen for you. Also try to do it manually or orally.
2007-12-11 14:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋