This is really anoying and i need your help!!!!?

Question

Ok im 14, and weigh 110 pounds. My mom weighs about 140-145 pounds. And she tries to fit into my clothes!!!! Its really anoying!! Im a small and sometiems a medium and my mom is a large!! When i come home sometimes i see her in one of my shirts or my jogging pants ( she cant fit into my jeans cause yeah, jeans are hard for her to fit into) Then when i wear my shirts they are loose on me and it looks weird. Its anoying!! she has her own clothes and i know this may sound weird but i really dont have that many clothes and i cant have her wearing them all the time cause then it will be too loose and then what am i going to wear? she has WAY more shirts and pants than i do. and when i get something new and she likes it she tries to fit into it. Im really going to start to cry cause its anoying and sometimes at our school we have dress down dsay wich means we can wear anything we want and its a problem for me because all the clothes i have are loose!! I'm sorry this is long and i really need

your help. And my dad dosent really like to get into anything so he just stays quiet when i tell her what she does.

I did try telling her 100000000000000000000 times!!!!! but she wont listen. This has been going on for a while. When i tell her, she says "ooh im not!! so stop bothering me" and she sometimes says "this is mine, it's not yours!" and my dad bought me a nice shirt that i love and im going to wear it for christmas and i think shes gunna wear it :(sometimes when im about to wear it she goes and takes it from me and then i dont have anything to wear. I cry sometimes because you don't know how anoying this is and please dont think im a cry baby cause if you do look at my closet you'll see that i dont have that many shirts. I have more uniform than normal clothes.

I know it sounds like im poor and everything but i used to be overweight and i lost weight so now i got rid of all my old clothes and now im getting clothes that i fit into

Answer 1

SEE NOW WE HAVE 2 CHOICES TELL HER HOW IT IS AND REMIND HER SHE AINT SKINNY LIKE SHE USED TO BE OR YOU CAN GAIN WAIT BUT IF I WERE YOU I WOULD HIDE MY FAV STUFF AND PUT OUT THE CLOTHES I HATE AND SHE CAN WEAR THAT SHE'LL STOP EVENTUALLY

Answer 2

I'd think your mom would look in the mirror and see how awful she looks in too small clothes, but since she obviously doesn't and won't listen to reason, there is only one thing left to do. And as a grandma aged person, I really hate to tell you to do this because I am incouraging dishonesty, but...

Is there somewhere you can hide your blouses. Maybe in a drawer where you could fold them neatly so they won't get all wrinkled, and put them at the bottom with something light like a scarfs thrown over the top so it doesn't show. If she doesn't know where they are, she can't wear them. If she asks about it, look her straight in the eye and say, "I think it's in the dirty cloths." And if she say she looked and it isn't, play dumb, "Gee, I don't know. I'll have to look for it when I have a chance." Then when you show up wearing it later, "Oh yeah, I found it." Not honest, but she isn't being reasonable.

Answer 3

I'd just tell her what you think.
Tell her you woudnt mind, but your stretching out your shirts a bit.
Dont offend her, just be nice about it.
Im sure if you just tell her how it is she will stop.

Answer 4

I think it's one of those mid-life crisis situations where your mother is realizing her age.

Talk to her, and tell her how you feel.

Answer 5

Do you buy your clothes by yourself or does your mom go with you?

Take your mom with you.. whatever you pick out for you, get one for her in whatever size she wants.......

Answer 6

hide ur clothes from her so she wont find it