When shes there,i wanna really say "Hi" to her,but i cant really say it.And now,im giving her a gift and i dont know if she will accept it.And sometimes if i message her,she didnt reply and when we were in school,its like i dont really exist to her eyes.She dont talk to me or maybe even look at me.I really like her and i just want to be happy before i graduate in highschool,before i leave her.What would i do?Please help me!!."I need your help".
2007-12-11 14:32:43 · 4 answers · asked by ChrisCT 4 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Astronomy & Space
Somehow your question ended up here instead of in Family & Relationships/Singles and Dating.
But to answer your question, you have to talk to her directly sometime. She might just be shy. Or she just might not be the least bit interested in you. Only one way to find out. If she brushes you off, take the message and move on.
Besides, what do you mean, you want to be happy before you leave her? That doesn't sound like a very sincere relationship.
2007-12-11 14:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brant 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, with my experience, I'm gonna tell you what works. This usually works better if you dont know the girl yet...but maybe I can find a way to fit this into your situation. Suppose you're at a party. There's a girl across the room you want to dance with. A LOT of guys make their first mistake by doing this: walking straight up, flirting, then asking. NO! Dont do that. Walk up, introduce yourself, then tell her you're going to be over in that direction (or where ever) if she wants to dance later. Then leave. Even better, if she's with friends, ask if they ALL want to dance later..then leave. You'll be the mysterious guy. Now, for you, maybe just saying hi. You said you've only got a little while longer in school with her, why not do it? If things go wrong, so what? You're almost out anyway. Don't obsess....just say hi. After you get comfortable with that, ask her to do something. Eat lunch with you, call you, hang out with you (if you're really feeling bold!). You say you want her to be happy. Is she not currently? A reason that she might not be talking to you could probably be two things. 1) She knows a false reputaion about you and doesn't want to associate. If it's this one...prove her wrong. 2) You've given off a stalker creepy vibe earlier on. Back off a little bit. If you stare in class or blush when you talk to her, always try to get near her....stop. See if that works. If after a couple weeks she still wont talk to you....make a move and YOU talk to HER! Good luck, my friend.
2007-12-11 16:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, If you want an answer in this category lets see if I can help. What is you're sign? What is her sign? are you just star struck? Have you wished on a star yet, Did the Blue Moon see you standing alone? Seriously, The best way to resolve this issue is to go to her and ask her how she feels about you. That way you ain't giving up anything and she will know you are interested in her and let her tell you her feelings. The shortest distant from point 'A' to point 'B' is a straight line. Plane and simple work wonders. Good luck!
2007-12-12 06:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jackolantern 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. Be brave, and walk up and talk to her, face-to-face and eye-to-eye. Smile, be polite, and LISTEN when she talks. Tell her you like her, but more important, tell her WHY you like her. Then ask her out.
There's a chance she might break your heart. It happens, and it's the risk you take by being honest. But the truth is, if she doesn't like you the same way, it would never work out in the long run anyway, and you're better off learning that as soon as possible, rather than wasting a lot of time.
On the other hand, she might go out with you. So isn't that worth it?
2007-12-11 14:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dom N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋