Last Night I was at a bar with a new but good friend, my ex boyfriend was there and my friend went up to say him not knowing i was right there and they kissed! It was a simple but "more than friends" kiss and It really pissed me off. I am over the ex boyfriend but would never in a million years expect any of my friends to go there! Then she tells me he kissed her. I was right there and It was consensual. Now she is being ridiculous about it saying "oh everyone hates me" blah blah blah. I dont get it. what should i do?
2007-12-11 12:23:45 · 36 answers · asked by ImaLittlebitRock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust your heart, this doesnt sound like a friend to me but a ho dog. Would a friend do that? NO. it is that simple, if she then pulls the oh everyone hates me....she doesnt stand up to her own responsibities either....not someone I would want as a friend....
2007-12-11 12:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by rowdysunsetart 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The key to this answer is that he is an "ex" or is he? If it bothers you that he kissed another girl, whether it was your friend or a stranger for that matter, then you are not really over him.
Maybe you still have unresolved feelings for him. You should examine why you felt or reacted this way. Blaming your friend is the easy way out but to fully grow and mature, look inside your own feelings first.
2007-12-11 12:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by mousey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a Biblical Church - Baptist etc. then you can lay your concerns at the foot of the cross of the Christmas Child. Merry Christmas.
This is not important stuff when there is people out there that is facing evictions,hunger and illness and even those in Colorado who has sadness thrust upon them.
Have a Merry Christmas from WebmasterSanta.com
2007-12-11 12:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by WebmasterSanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to ask yourself, how much do i like her, am i able to for give her? When you first got in the relationship, did you think or say it was forever, if so you need to find the strength to forgive her. If she truly does not look like she really is sorry then she is a player, but like i said if she is the one you think will be a high school sweet heart or whatever grade you are in. Take my advice trust it will work.
2007-12-11 12:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Black&Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go this time if it is going to end up in a fight & break up a friendship but if you have a problem with your friends hooking up w/ your ex's there should be a line there and she should get the ok from u first ,vice versa
2007-12-11 12:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop this "friend" and stay away from your ex boyfriend anyway.
You need to go to some other places and meet some new people.
I think your ex boyfriend and your new friend are both a couple of liars & losers!!
2007-12-11 12:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by KYGrace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything back , just stop being friends with her.
I would have a chat with your "ex" about doing things to encourage disrespect between friends. ... Since you say it was "consensual."
Always takes two to tango
OR just come in with a new flame ( like one of his buddies) and kiss right infront of him .
See how he handles it .
2007-12-11 12:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's taking advantage of being the NEW friend, and it's hard to make a line there. You just need to tell her that if you're going to be better friends and friends for a while, she needs to be honest and not do shitty things like that.
2007-12-11 12:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lemonada 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect thing to do..is ignore it.
Tell the Y/A community how uncomfortable and p-o'd you are..but as far as the "ex" and "your friend" ...you didn't see it..you don't care...and "hey..does this color look good on me? I'm going out with some friends tonight...are you coming?"
The less you attend to this...the less the "friend" and the "ex" will rub it in your face..and the less excitement they will find in each other.
2007-12-11 12:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st if he isn't your boyfriend any more why you getting bent out of shape? Date and own for life?
2nd doesn't sound like much of a friend either. You need to meet some new people and enjoy life.
2007-12-11 12:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋