What do you do when your marriage has become stressed and is at risk because of a lot of fighting about lawsuit that's against the both of you?
What do you do when the person suing is a famous and wealth surgeon?
What do you do when the attorney that you've got doesn't defend you and/or isn't strong enough to and changes his mind a lot but yet you can't afford him let alone get a different one?
What do you do when you just want to move away from it all and sell your house but you can't because it's still an open case and it involves our well water and well pump electricity being possibly shut down?
What do you do if you don't have enough money to hook up to rural water or drill a new well and end up having no money or household/outdoor water in the end?
What do you do when they keep threatening to bring another lawsuit against you?
What do you do when a tough situation are suppose to make your relationship with your spouse stronger but really hurts it?
2007-12-11 11:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by janet_67_1998 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
pray.
2007-12-11 11:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Peace and Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) We go to therapy.
2) If the surgeon has a real claim against us, then we settle the case. If his lawsuit if frivolous, I tell him to piss off.
3) I work with what I've got, or find some financing (mortgage refi) to get a new lawyer.
4) If the lawsuit involves my home, then I probably won't be able to sell it. I might consider abandoning it and becoming a transient that lives on the southern california beaches.
5) I'd ask my boss for a raise.
6) I tell them to bring it.
7) And we're back to therapy. Or divorce, but that's more expensive and involves more lawyers, which sounds like it won't help anything.
2007-12-11 19:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.Samsa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a therapist
get a good lawer
take a break
go to the spa
consoul in freinds and family
and live tomorw, its a brand new day
(and probly a better one without him)
dont let him run your life! make your own decisions
and if he dosnt wanna make ends meet
then get out of the relashionship
2007-12-11 19:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say a prayer and ask God to help me get through this.
2007-12-11 19:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Pray some more. And you should also pray.
2007-12-11 19:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by The_Gov 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang in there and be there for your spouse
2007-12-11 19:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is allot of questions lol
2007-12-11 19:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
is this your homework?
2007-12-11 19:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by irreplaceably_rare 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋