How do you make someone understand that you want nothing to do with them?

Question

That you simply have no interest in them?
if you have no respect for them? how is it possible to make them understand?
Espcially if they're messing with your mind, playing mind games.

Sorry guys, I don't mean to sound negative, I have just about had enough of a situation that has been going on for long time.

I've tried all that, they don't understand f** off, they think it;s a game..
thank you Roux Faerie, that describes them perfectly.

They don't do it in a way that can be proven, they are very manipulative & cunning. I can't go to the police becuase I can't prove it.

Thank you everyone, I am going to try those.

Thanks Tine, but I don;t know any big muscular guys. In fact, I'm pretty much on my own, good reason for they have got me on my own.

actually Mirko I have, I tried everything. I have done exactly what you said, but nothing is good enough for them. it;s always someone elses's fault with them, they have no conscience except their own gratification & their own happiness.

Thank you, but it;s not a man & also I am not the violent type, I wish I was.

Denie, the reason I put this question in parapsychology is becos they;re playing mind games & messing with my mind, seriuosly, I feel I am going to go crazy. If it was sth I could prove or was abit more physical, I would do sth about it.

Thanks everyone, I'll leave it, let them add to their karma, ehat goesa round comes around, one day it'll catch up with them! lol

Thanks everyone, I'll leave it, let them add to their karma, ehat goesa round comes around, one day it'll catch up with them! lol

Answer 1

Stay away from this person and cut of any and all contact with them. They sound very manipulative, disrespectful and cruel.

If necessary move or get a restraining order

Answer 2

Is there some reason you are forced to be in her (you said it wasn't a man) presence? If not, stay away. If so, why? What is the context of your proximity? Are she a co-worker? A family member?

Is this person actively or purposefully creating the contact in which they are "messing with your mind"?

BTW, what do you mean by "messing with you mind"? One can only do that to you if you allow their words or deeds to even have meaning, let alone truth. Imagine someone was trying to mess with your mind but was speaking a language of which you had absolutely no understanding; how much affect could they have on you?

In any case, if she is purposefully harming or offending you - even if she does it negligently, while there may not be anything the police can do, you may have grounds to bring a lawsuit for intentional, or negligent, infliction of emotional distress.

However, these are very difficult causes of action to win. Maybe you should toughen up and quit allowing other people to affect you. The only way they can is if you let them.

Answer 3

I think you're in the wrong section. I think you want the Psychology section or maybe the Mental Health section...or even Singles &Dating section. I copied a definition of parapsychology for you below:

Parapsychology (from the Greek: παρά para, "alongside" + psychology) is the study of ostensibly paranormal psychological phenomena. Phenomena studied include extra-sensory perception, psychokinesis, and survival of consciousness after death; parapsychologists call these phenomena psi, a neutral term non-suggestive of what causes the phenomena or experiences.
EDIT..Can't you get a Restraining Order on him?
EDIT....I don't know what "sth" means. Are you saying that these are "spirits" that are bothering you? Or..are they people in a cult? You need to explain who "they" are so we can try to help you.

Answer 4

some people can not take no for an answer
so there is not much you can do

except hope it will get into there thick little minds one day and they wake up to the real life and realise IT


been there done it got the T-SHIRT
i was one of those thick twits
who had to realise this

also HAD IT THE OTHER WAY ROUND
IT IS NOT NICE EITHER WAY

all i can say is best wishes
hope it works out for you

Answer 5

Maintain a strong mind. Once you've made yourself absolutely clear you must ignore the person at all costs. Stalker types are so deluded they see *any* attention from you as good attention. So you must be a blank slate to them.

Answer 6

Some people can't understand. That's why we have restraining orders. If the person is whacked then you might need one.

You can move far away or just ignore them.

Answer 7

If all else fails a knee to the nuts works good. That says it all. He'll quit bothering you after a few good whacks to the groin.

Answer 8

Perhaps a really good Kick in the Family Jewels would help you get your message across to them?

Answer 9

Easy answer, get an injunction explain that the person is driving you nuts or something...but really this belongs in relationships or mental health section....

Answer 10

Tell him you have galloping crabs and you caught them off a syphilitic, schizophrenic and you have a F-nny like a blue whale only it turned a funny shade of green after you had baboon.