Is it wrong to stare at a girl's breast area?

Question

How come when I talk or notice a girl, the first thing i lok at is their chest/breast area. i don't know why i do that, i don't even see their face first, their face comes 2nd. i am not a pervert and i don't wana be werid...? what is wrong with me? Also, can girls tell when I do this, cause it is embarssing. can they tell or feel like i am starring there for 5 secs? help plz.

i am a freshmen in highschool, will i grow out of this?

Answer 1

You're growing up and your hormones make you want to look there first. Try to focus on her face and what's really important, who she is, not what she looks like. A lot of girls will notice this if you aren't careful and it will really hurt their feelings for girls that have any self-respect. To them it says that you only care about breasts and sex and nothing more. Some men don't see it as a problem but it's really disrespectful and immature. Just try to make eye contact right away and avoid looking lower.

Answer 2

Nothings wront with you, im sure almost every guy on earth does or has done this at some point. Since you are going through puberty your body is raging with sexual hormones so its natural to notice that stuff. But try to stare at the girls face.

Answer 3

How would you feel if A girl constantly starred at your
crouch, you would feel uncomfortable I bet, It's kinda
rude to do that I mean it happens sometimes but I wouldn't
make it A habit.

Answer 4

Yes, it is wrong! Would you like them staring at your crotch? I think not, you aren't just that are you? Well, they aren't just breasts, they are human beings. I guarantee you, if you don't learn to look at their eyes soon, you may find yourself getting in trouble.

Of course they can tell and it makes them feel lousy! Have respect for females or you will not be liked by them at all.

Answer 5

It's normal. Yes, we can tell when you are doing it. It's only wrong if you make her uncomfortable.

See, I knew this guy who every time I talked to him, he stared at my boobs. He'd even lick his lips a little bit. I am a VERY modest dresser, so I'm not sure what he was thinking. It creeped me out.

Girls learn to expect a certain amount of ogling. When I talk to any man, even gay ones, I expect them to glance down at my chest. It's natural. Now, if they start drooling and making "honk-honk" motions with their hands, I might get mad.

Answer 6

im sure its just hormones....and no girls don't like it when guys check out their boobs, unless they are a ****....when you know you are going to talk to a girl, make yourself look at her face first. and it totally turns girls off when they catch you looking...it makes them think thats the only reason you have anything to do with them. good luck on breaking this habbit!

Answer 7

This question has come in my direction before, but the asker was myself. I thought about it and came to the conclusion.....that it depends if they put them out there on purpose. Come on ladies you know what I'm talking about....low cut...really tight...shirts. Trying to make us feel bad for looking...its not your fault bro,in fact, its actually theirs.

Answer 8

You should try to stop staring, it's very impolite.
You're not a pervert and you're not weird; it's those raging hormones!! =(
You'll grow out of it sooner or later. =]

Answer 9

Im a freshman and find myself glancing a lot but not staring. Dont do that its kinda freaky/.

Answer 10

Now if u were to do this to me id say "DO YOU MIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" in other words the answer is YES! and ur a guy unfortunatly 4 us girls u guys do that bacically it's how ur built