because i have like../acrush on one of my bestfriends and im scared, how can i tell her without her being freaked out? im always saying how much i love her, and she says it back. i know she doesn't mean it like that, but what if she somehow does? ugh idk i feel like a freak =(
2007-12-11 10:45:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i have a crush on a guy right now too so im kind of confused
but y does this happen to all girls? DOES IT REALLY? omg i dont believe that, i cant imagine my friend feeling this way
2007-12-11 15:18:39 · update #1
relax. it's just a crush, and just about EVERY girl goes through that at one time or another. It's totally normal, and it will go away.
If it happens all the time, and you never get crushes on boys, then I'd start to wonder about being gay, maybe. But if this isn't the case with you, then it's just the normal girl crush thing that goes away. all girls go through that, pretty much.
2007-12-11 12:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, even if you are a lesbian, it does not make you a freak. Yes it is a different lifestyle from what we are used to but it can be very fulfilling
You sound young and most young ladies have a crush on a female friend at some stage. It is easy to confuse a crush with being in love. That you have a crush on your same sex friend does not make you a lesbian, it just makes you a normal young person.
To learn more about the lesbian lifestyle you should probably watch some movies about the lesbian lifestyle. Not porn, just movies that feature lesbians
One such list with some preview clips can be found at http://www.moviesforlesbians.com
If you are a lesbian, take heart. Millions have walked this path before you
2007-12-11 11:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by moviesforlesbians 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of people in there lifetime get curious.You can either be that or you really do have feeling for the same sex.If you truley think that you into other women, then i would take a stand on it.If you think your friend will be weirded out by it, try bringing it up causually. Ask things in third person like" how do you feel about gays and lesbians" or maybe even try flirting with her.Its a touchy topic. because you don't want to lose the wonderful friendship you have with her.I woulnd't rush into it just yet for that reason.
good luck!:]
Peace and Love
2007-12-11 10:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylyn L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
o boy do i know how u feel i had a major crush on my bff i finally got the courage to tell but she said the feelings werent mutual i was crushed but now im starting to get over it. dont feel like a freak your feelings arent weird **** happens i nvr intended to have feelings for her but it happened. at first i had regrets because i got rejected. but now i realize it was the best thing because now i dont have to wonder i just know there wont ever be nething. so i say take a chance if shes truely your friend she will stick around even if she doesnt have the same feelings. my bff stook around even though its changed alittle. but she is so cool and supports whatever i want in life
2007-12-11 11:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wish i knew how old u were bc that would have alot to do with how u should approach it. if u kno ur a lesbian for sure id just slowly come out. and come out to her but i wouldnt tell her u want her or love her like that quite yet. might scare her off and u wouldnt want to loose her as a friend. see how she takes the lesbian thing first then slowly get the courage to let her know how u feel about her but let her also know that no matter what u love her as a friend before these feelings came and no matter what u still want her as a friend! good luck =]
2007-12-11 10:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by *mommy to be #1* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont feel like a freak- its easy for young girls to feel attraction for a friend of theirs. Especially when you look around and realize the lack of good men these days. Im a lesbian and I love my girlfriend to death. more than I have ever loved a man. Its like a best friend and the love of your life rolled into one. Women are great!!! Tell her- believe me- if she is your best friend she will not turn her back on you- if she is interested she will tell you- if not then as your best friend she will support you in finding out who you really are.
2007-12-11 10:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by raecebo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never watch the show again Kimmy as I know it will all be a fix for Simon's act to win and it won't be a talent show anymore because those two just don't have any!!
2016-05-23 03:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by raguel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One attraction does NOT make you "gay." I would not get into a relationship with her or any other girl until you are older and have more perspective. You are not a freak, just young.
2007-12-11 10:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anna P 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You two just need to somehow talk about your feelings for each other and other people.
Just start an easy conversation when something comes up about it.
2007-12-11 10:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just ask her how she feels about gay people......if she gives you the answer that you want then make a move ..... good luck!!!
2007-12-11 12:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by mandaroc8806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋