there is this girl in my school in the 7th grade. she is pregnant or at least that is what everyone is saying. how can i find out if she is or if it is just a rumor?
2007-12-11 08:07:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
dont treat me like a little kid gib000! you said most kids your age dont even know what sex is. you are sadly mistaken. i am in middle school and you dont know the kind of peoplw that go to my school. they are always talking about the night before and what happened and some nasty kids even will go to the bathroom to play this game they call tickle and touch where the guy tickles the girl and if she laughs he just kisses her. but if she does not laugh then they do it for 5 mins and play the game again. of course they never do this at school they do it at the movies and things like that. so dont say that kids MY AGE dont know about sex. we do and just because where you live kids dont know about sex or you did not when you were a kid, does not mean its the same now. just so you guys know i have never had sex b4 bc i plan to wait until marrage.
2007-12-12 04:22:00 · update #1
If she is your friend she will tell you when she is ready to tell you. However if your not a friend of this girls then you need to mind your own business. What does it matter to you if she is or isn't?
Gossip like that is one of the reason's these children hide being preg. and then dump the baby. Who does that help?
2007-12-11 08:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by kiss_of_angel_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13 and in eighth grade. fairly plenty all faculties are the comparable way, many people in my college do the comparable issues. do no longer situation, the pregnant ladies would be sorry later whilst they have 5 little ones and are working at a quickly nutrients eating place. i'm in user-friendly terms in an A length bra too, basically loosen up, ur advantageous!
2016-10-11 02:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that this is your business you should explain to her that there is rumor of her recent pregnancy and if it were true could you lend a helping hand. Remember, don't be cruel... she made a mistake and I am sure you have made mistakes yourself and do not deserve to be made fun of for them. Most importantly, she may need a friend either way. If people are being cruel and making up rumors she may need a shoulder to cry on or a friend to support her during this difficult time. If she is pregnant she definately needs unconditional love from a friend that will stand beside her no matter of her faults.
2007-12-11 08:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We had a lot pregnant girls in my middle school in DC. If I were you, I would just quietly wait till she either shows or announce her pregnancy. I wouldn't pay much attention to the rumors because most kids your age don't know what sex is, which is the way it should be.
2007-12-11 08:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her about it, there is no other way to do it, but its her private business so its best for you and the rest of school mates to stay out of her life, and its isn't good to make rumors on others
2007-12-11 08:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her I doubt it but its very possible and when people say those things you should tell them to mind their own bussiness. If you are friends with her defend her no one wants to be talked about at school. And if your not she may need a friend if no one is trying to get people to stop talking about her. but its probly just a nasty rumor.
2007-12-11 08:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by moon_star_black 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, is it your business? Part of me wants you to ask her, because if she's not, she deserves to know if this is going around about her and isn't true, pregnancy is a big thing. The other part of me doesn't want you to ask because if she is, she probably doesn't want the whole school to find out about it. I would wait and see.
Edit-Who is the loser who's giving everyone thumbs down???
2007-12-11 08:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by yahoo user 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go up to and be like I've been hearing things about u that and i wasn't sure were true and want to clear the air, the one thing I've been most worried about is people saying your pregnant is it true? if she says yes talk to her let her know you'll be there and don't be really judging and freak out either that could be really bad
2007-12-11 08:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Life is to short to live in the past 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I can be direct, it's probably none of your business. If she is pregnant, she's probably going to have a difficult time given her age. The best thing you can do is be supportive of her once she tells everyone and not gossip about whether or not she's preggers in the meantime.
2007-12-11 08:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry but does it affect you? She probably doesnt feel to great about the rumor either. you WILL find out if its true or not I assure you, so dont worry and try to be kind to her.
2007-12-11 08:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋