they can't find men of their own? are they trying to be in competition with the wives or what? that's so pathetic...
2007-12-11 08:02:42 · 33 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men will sleep with a woman that is offering up the sex. If a married man finds that a single woman is interested, he is going to sleep with her. Most likely the married man has groomed the single woman in a way to lead her to believe he has relationship issues. What man that is cheating does not conjure up relationship issues? Women put love and sex together. The other woman feels she stands a chance with the married man because of things that he has said to her. He is just want some sex on the side and she is wanting a relationship. For some reason women feel that it is alright to get involved before a divorce is final. Women tend to take a lot of things at face value. The man is as much to blame as the woman. Sometimes single women will play around but most of the time they are looking for a relationship. The man is as wrong as the women. It is easier to blame the other woman because the wife might find forgiveness for her husband. AND he will tell her some story that the other woman came on to him, that it is all the other womans fault or the fault of the wife and the wife will fall for it. Men are very manipulative.
2007-12-11 08:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been happily single for 5yrs. Alot of men flirt, give me their numbers, and even married men want to cheat with me, they even go as far to say they have been single for months. I've been known to fall for a lie or two. I also assure you, that while taken men are 'hooking up', their partners or wives are the last thing on their minds.
2007-12-11 11:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around you there is a shortage of men and in the mist of that shortage are a small selection of good men. These men are usually taken.....happily married with kids, engaged etc. Some women become desperate and see these good men and try to pursue or seduce them because they can't wait for their own Mr. Right.
2007-12-11 08:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are too LAZY to find their own single available man..they also lack respect for themselves and for the wife....Some women love the thrill of the chase...and it is more thrilling to go after a married man....a man that is suppose to be off limits...and getting him to buckle and sleep with her....It is so Pathetic like you said...
I don't think you were trying to put the entire blame on the woman...you were just asking why a woman would sleep with a married man...and I think the married man definitely should share the blame....He knows were to keep his d*ck.....
2007-12-11 08:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Can't blame the ones who date the men when the man hasn't told them he is married. The ones that do go after the married man; it could be a game to see if she can snag him or just the fact she is attracted to him and doesn't care who she hurts to get her own way.
2007-12-11 09:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's has to do with their need for attention and difficulties they are having with all the hot babe competitors. Single women cheat mainly because they have had a difficult time attracting single men. It is much easier to get attention from a married man (with 1 wife) than it is to attract a single man who already has multiple hot babes to choose from. When single women don't get the dates, they are easily swayed by the married guy. Married women do this also because of their need for attention. But once again, it's much easier to attract a married guy than a single guy, who has more babes to choose from. It's much more embarrassing for a single gal to fool around than it is for a married gal to, because at least the married gal WAS able to find someone who thought she was hot at some point in life.
2007-12-11 08:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not really. Women think like: "some other woman took him so he must be quite good or she's quite dumb....hmm...I'll take the risk."
for the husband it's exciting having the risk getting caught. And remember: the woman is just sleeping with some guy. The guy is cheating on his wife. He's entirely to blame.
2007-12-11 08:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by saskia r 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are every bit as competitive as men, just in different ways. Many of them like the game called, "My purse costs more than yours and I am a size 2." Others like the game called, "I can get your man any time I want to."
Unsuspecting men think it's about them, when it isn't.
Men are just the poker chips or currency women deal in, sometimes.
2007-12-11 08:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
2 reasons. 1. The thought of getting caught and having sex with a married man/woman bring excitment. 2. There is no commitment. That is why today people resort to friends with benifits
2007-12-11 08:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by john d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree it is. Why can't women learn not to mess with taken men. Yet it takes 2 to cheat. I guess it is just because all the good men seem to be taken and it's too hard to search for the ones that are not.
2007-12-11 08:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋