Almost 2 years ago my husband and I were having a difficult time and we split up. I had just found out I was pregnant with our first child and needless to day we got back together a few months later and everything is great now but while we were seperated he slept with his hairdresser (whom he continued to go to for haircuts up until 3 months ago when I found out they had slept together) and now everytime he's out she pops up and brings up all of this old stuff. I don't know why she feels the need to talk to him but he has told her numerous times he wants nothing to do with her but she just won't quit. A couple of weeks ago she cornered him at the bank inside of the supermarket and started going on and on about how she was sorry I found out and all of this. What should I do? I would love to kick her sorry butt but I'm too classy for that.
2007-12-11 07:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by addisonsmom17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Added note...I had a feeling for a long time that something had happened between them so my daughter and I began accompaning him to his haircuts so I know nothing happened again.
2007-12-11 07:14:19 · update #1
He doesn't go there anymore. And he tells me everything that happens now. Everytime she comes up to him he tells me right away. hes sick of her and has told her he loves us very much and wants our family to be together.
2007-12-11 07:20:58 · update #2
If he didn't WANT her harassing him he would have filed a restraining order against her by now.
2007-12-11 14:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for your husband to file a restraining order against this woman. He'll have to find a new place to get his hair cut but obviously the woman will not take no for an answer. Therefore, since your husband established to her that he doesn't want anything to do with him and she still pesters him and bothers him, restraints will be the only way to keep her away legally.
2007-12-11 15:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ever seen the movie Fatal Attraction? Don't think it would ever get that bad, but this woman is obviously still hung up on your husband and needs to get over him somehow. Hopefully time will help, completely ignoring her would help too, as even the smallest word he might exchange with her can be misconstrued.
2007-12-11 15:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Julie S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do nothing. You won, he's with you and regrets his actions.
When she approaches him he needs to tell her in no uncertain terms that he wants no further contact or communication with her and that she is to never approach him again. Then he needs to ignore her and walk away. If the woman is nuts, he may have a case for a restraining order under an antistalking law, if your community has antistalking laws.
2007-12-11 15:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront your husband and ask why he would disrespect you like this and continue going to her and allowing her to speak to him so freely about a "mistake" that happened between them. Tell him you want him to stop going there and that you want him in front of you to tell her that she is not welcome to contact him in any way and that he loves you and it was very disrespectful to you.
2007-12-11 15:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by jslorri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her she's desperate-and has no life-or kill her with kindness-which will drive her crazy
2007-12-11 15:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd allow my "class" to slip out for a brief moment....
2007-12-11 15:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋