2007-12-11 06:32:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Moving class, or putting up with it are not very good choices. moving class is running away, and in all areas of life ther will be mean people. Speak to someone, a teacher, a parent, a friend of the family. DO NOT let it carry on. Bullying is unacceptable. When I was in primary school I was bullied. A snide comment here and there. I never told anyone for months, Sometimes I just wished I would die. After I told someone, the bullys stopped. The downside was, because I waited so long, I lost alot of my self confidence. Speak up be heard!!
2007-12-11 06:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from. I, too, was bullied for a number of years in middle school. I never hit back--and I think that was a huge mistake, and I'm not a violent person. I took a lot of garbage that I shouldn't have had to put up with. I would recommend the following. I am assuming that you either have told your parents and they either support you or don't (mine didn't), so I'm not going to recommend that.
1. Write down every incident, with dates, times, and names. (don't write a history, but indicate who/when/what started everything and keep a log from here out).
2. Show this log to your school administrator. Suggest that this person get involved and put an end to this behavior immediately.
3. If there is physical abuse occuring (yes, if it's hitting and punching, it's abuse--took me a long time to figure that out), then you might want to involve the police (no, I'm not kidding). If your folks are willing, you can try to file a report with your local police for assault.
4. Oh--and keep maintaining RECORDS--chances are your bullies don't have them, and a paper trail goes a LONG way.
Overall, just because you're a kid doesn't mean you don't have rights--the right to walk free from fear and the right to call a jerk on the carpet. If there's a teacher you trust, maybe you can talk to that person for some support and advice. It's rough going if you have to do it alone.
2007-12-11 13:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Used_to_know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting up with it is not a good option. Your options should be:
1. moving classes
2. Staying in class and confronting your bully.
I can't tell you which is the better option, but don't decide to allow yourself to be bullied. Confronting your bully will be hard, but in the long run you'll be happy you did regardless of the outcome. Moving classes will easily fix the problem (at least for now) but this solution is less satisfying and doesn't allow you to grow as a human-being.
2007-12-11 06:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are still going to be in the same school as the bully then changing classes is not going to help a lot. They will just look for you in between classes and at breaks. You have got to stand up to this person. Pick up whatever you can get your hands on and bust them across the face JUST ONCE and they will leave you alone. They are feeding on your fear and once you let them know that you are not afraid anymore then they will get bored and go away. Good luck to you!
2007-12-11 06:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not move class as you most probably have friends in your current class, and to move would spoil everything you have. Keep getting at your teachers until something is done, do not stop until the person is either heavily punished or suspended. Do not lose friends you already have because of one insecure person who feels to need to bully others
2007-12-11 07:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by jg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just put up with it. No one has the right to bully you, or anyone else. Tell your teacher, or someone at the school that you trust, and let your parents know whats going on. If the problem continues, go to the police. You don't have to put up with this.
2007-12-11 06:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put up with it. If you walk awayd from a bully now, you will soend your whole life walking away from things that scare you. It's not a good habit to get into. Stand up for yourself. They guy will respect you more for doing that than walking away.
2007-12-11 06:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by bushnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice i can give somebody whom is being bullied FIGHT BACK don't let them bully you, grow some backbone and fight back let them know you are not afraid of them.
2007-12-11 06:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by spkrypto7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entertain them until you are the one who is ready to make a decision. Don't put up with it and don't move for anybody, if they want you out that bad make them put you out...
2007-12-11 06:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by mentalchallenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Tell your teachers. Tell your school administrators. Tell the school board for your county.
Tell them if it is not resolved, your parents will take all the "necessary actions." Show them, you and your parents are not going to back down.
2007-12-11 06:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋