i gave a close buddy of mine oral sex.... it was my first time ever.
he kept asking me to stick stuff in my mouth and see how far they would go since i don't have a gag reflex at lunch. i caught on quickly that he likes watching me do it......
anyways blah blah blah yada yada yada i'm on my knees.
i don't really have a problem getting his member all the way in, it's jsut that he doesn't like to wear condoms.
we're both 18 and clean...
my question is should i swallow or spit? does it really matter if i don't swallow?
2007-12-11 05:12:20 · 15 answers · asked by A second chicken 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
personally i don't mind swallowing, i'm just worried if there are any sideeffects. he is clean btw.
2007-12-11 05:24:38 · update #1
Don't swallow! Always play safe!
2007-12-12 21:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, it's your choose. Me personally, I swallow, but that is only because I choose to. Make sure that before you make a decision, (well, actually, you already have,) to give someone oral sex, that you read up on STD's and know about them. As was said by someone else, HIV is not the only thing out there. There are all kinds of things you could catch from giving anyone oral sex. Think about what you are doing, and educate yourself. I agree, we want you and your friend to spend a lot more time here on earth and you won't be able to do that if you get killed by some disease that you knew nothing about.
2007-12-11 05:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by andywpickard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wellll...You both get used to wearing condoms. You might be 18 but you don't know where he's been -- truly. He might have been somewhere you don't realize.
As for spitting... keep a handkerchief handy but this is what a condom is for so you don't have to. Swallowing or spitting is a good way of getting a nice venereal disease.
You *wear* a condom. We want to see you both around for a few more decades
2007-12-11 05:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your partner is healthy than swallow it ...semen isn't bad for you unless he has an std than it could be the worst derision of your life. some guys get really turned on if you swallow rather than spit but it doesn't really make a big difference.
2007-12-11 07:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Talk Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While using a condom would be your best option. It seems to me that you do not want to utilize this option. I would suggest that you swallow or spit just dont let it sit in your mouth. However, if you have acid reflux spitting would be your best option.
Stay Safe!!!
2007-12-11 06:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurt you (medically speaking) if you swallow. It doesn't really matter which one you do, but I think a lot of guys would prefer one to swallow...don't know why. But just do what makes you feel comfortable.
2007-12-11 05:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Persephone 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no, you shouldn't be except the two of you had a prior untreated ailment. Monogamous relationships are not companies to ailments. that is significant to get examined usually in case your are not monogamous nevertheless. you may get Herpes simplex 2 i your mouth from oral intercourse.
2016-10-11 01:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reasons you would want to swallow is if you like too or if he likes you too and you want to please him.
Personally, I enjoy seeing women swallow, but if they don't like it, I certainly would not press the issue. (Straight guy here).
There is no problems with swallowing, it's just a matter of tastes and likes.
2007-12-11 05:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't matter if you swallow or not. and as far as diseases go, you can get them whether you swallow or not. so do whatever you want.
2007-12-11 05:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if you're both clean. If you swallow, he will feel that you accept him as a man
2007-12-11 06:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋