i may of dissapointed my mom a little bit..i stayed out to late andmade hr worrie and when she confronted me about it i yelled at her and told her i didnt need her..i regret that these words ever came out of my mouth and ill never forgive myself...after doing this one thing ran through my head..am i a horrible person????
2007-12-11 04:15:31 · 51 answers · asked by ♥katie♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
um no its okay theres plenty of ppl with alot worse things but rember ur looking to have a mom that cares about wen i grew up me and none of my friends had nyone who cared we could come and go as we plz no curfure no nutting we could do anything if u dont take care of a kid they can easily become **** ups if u think thats a bad thing ive done worse ur fine and sound realy nice
2007-12-11 04:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by acidrain! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not a horrible person, but an apology is definitely needed. You should be thankful that your mother cares so much, because even though it feels like a burden or an annoying fly buzzing around your head many people don't have the luxury of loving parents! On the other hand, don't feel too bad about lashing out if you are sorry, because many kids these days aren't sorry. You are a natural young person and you have a right to feel the way you do, so try being honest with your mother and discuss your emotions
2007-12-11 04:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's way too little information here for you to get a decent answer.
However, think about how kind you are to other people. A nice person does things for other people without even being asked. Have you given your mom the little things she wants from you (just because of all she's done for you)?
-the occasional hug
-a thank you for the sandwich she made
-a little present just because you thought she'd like it
The thing not to do, is to think about the give and take too much. There are plenty of things you can do for your mom that will take very little effort on your part. Do those things, and don't ask for a reward.. (be patient, and you'll get a bigger reward then you would have though possible).
Then you're mom will tell you herself, what a great person you are... :-)
2007-12-11 04:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, everyone gets angry, and this is what you did. Whenever you snap or shout at a family member and you feel bad, go and apologise. Even after fights with your family you know they still love you. Your not a bad person for this one thing you did. Apologise if you already happened. Tell your mum that you are very sorry and you could understand where she was coming from and that next time you will try not to get so angry. Hope this helps.
2007-12-11 04:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you have remember the attitude you have with your friends, has no place in the home. Yes it was a mistake, take time to look at this situation. Think of how you can separate the outside you and the home you. Apologize to mom and really mean it, there's no one in the world that can love you the way she does. Good Luck.
2007-12-11 04:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a horrible person. Your mother has nothing more than love for you. It is natural for any mother to confront their child when the child makes them worry. You really need to apologize and next time be considerate of your mothers feelings and let her know if you'll be in late.
2007-12-11 12:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a terrible person some times things get build
up inside and we let go.Go apologize to your mother and tell her you are sorry about all the things you said.Tell her you need her in your life.You need to think of your mother's feelings too.It's nice to have fun with your friends, but when you stay out late and not call your mother.She worrys about you it's just the way mother's are.They don't mean to they just worry they don't want something to happen to there baby.You need to make it a point to call your mother and let her know you are ok.Ask her if there is any thing she want you to do to show you care about her.As I said apologize to your mother and tell her you are sorry for the way you acted and ask her to for give you and that you love her.And if you are out late call her and let her know you are ok.
2007-12-11 06:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing a horrible thing is diffrent then being a horrible person. Every one has a day when they say something that they totally regret. you had a moodswing... don't feel bad.. to resolve your problem with your mom just talk to her or write her a note. leaving a problem unresloved will only make you feel worse. venting your feelings is a good and healthy way to clear your mind. good luck and i hope everything works out!
2007-12-11 04:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Red-Head Hottiee<33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeapper..you are. She wasn't yelling to be mean, but out of concern and fear. Liken to a child who runs out into the street. The thought of what could had been caused people to react in this way. Your mother was worried and didn't know what happen to you so she thought of the worst and became frighten by those thoughts. you should apologize and tell her you understand and promise to be better in the future. Hey, at least you do have a heart that should mean something.
2007-12-11 04:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by wind champ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, we all make mistakes. The only difference between a good person and a horrible person is if they apologize for the things they've done and try to never do them again. Just tell your mom what you told us just now.
2007-12-11 04:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Delusions of Grandeur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋