A girl i know did some unfavorbale things that pissed me off,i reacted by doing the same (some misunderstandings),i then earned her trust and played mind games with her.(being cool with her,then ignoring her,and things of that nature)I was just so angry.
2007-12-11 03:31:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, you keep on telling us that you're such an expert and knowledgeable guitarist I'm surprised you don't already know the answer to this one!
2007-12-12 19:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by minefelloff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO WRONGS NEVER MAKE A RIGHT. To condemn a behavior and then mimic it, is highly hypocritical and very immature. How can you say it was not right for someone else to do, but right when you do?? WRONG!! Actually, YOU are TWICE as wrong!!
ANGER is NOT an excuse to be petty, underhanded and nasty. Anger is something that MUST be dealt with from within - you must look at WHY it is there, and then GET IT OUT in a non-destructive way!!
You AND this girl you speak of here, are VERY confused on what is right and wrong - - it seems you both THINK being nasty and petty is RIGHT - - wow - I pray you both stop acting like this and grow up before trying to have any kind of DECENT relationships!
2007-12-11 11:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This was handled in an immature fashion. The best thing to do would be to confront her calmly and let her know that the things she did made you upset. You don't know what really happened unless you get all sides of the story anyway.
Doing that to someone makes you a very untrustworthy person in her eyes, (thats if she knows what you did).
2007-12-11 11:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by livelaughlovehappy:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did that out of spite
and lack of ability to control your emotions!
i would take a hard look at yourself and see what you could improve on with in yourself prior to acting out some silly, hurtfull things!
being angry is not a good excuse we all get mad and ticked off you just deal with it in a nasty hatefull spitefull way!
sinking down to ones level isn't write at all!
that would be the same as if someone cut me off while i was driving (weather there intent was oops or ha ha slow car) if i speed up and do the same that is spiteful and that's well what you did!
2007-12-11 11:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it was wrong.
If this person is a true friend then you should talk to her and try to understand each other.
If the friendship is not worth saving then you should both move on for the sake of your sanity.
2007-12-11 16:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by blissman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was cruel. When this girl was doing things that ticked you off..you should have told her. Talking about it would have prevented two people getting hurt.
Forgiveness is a great friend to have..but revenge is your own worst enemy.
2007-12-11 11:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, grow up next time!!! if she's pissed you off, talk to her about it, otherwise your just as bad as her. i feel sorry for her not you, coz if you talked to her about it dhe would've known not to do it again/ apologise etc. stop being so bloody petty- how old are you?! i wouldnt even expect a 12 year old to o that...
2007-12-11 11:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by eden.minx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is what most people do to one another all the time without realising that they are doing so. You , unlike others have admitted and realised it !
Now don't do it again
2007-12-11 11:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wulff1e 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
em was their something wrong with just saying you make me angry???? no really???
you say you earned her trust and then you abused her trust with intent??? and she supposedly did unfavourable things to you?
I don't think your telling us the real story.
yours.
2007-12-11 11:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of Tae Kwon Do 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry abou it at least you are asking the question. You learn from your mistakes thats what makes us who we are.
2007-12-11 11:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Cassius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋