i met my best friend when i still lived in maryland my and his friend wanted us to hook up but we lived 45 minutes away from each other and we became best friends when i fell in love with him i didnt want to telll him but i eventually did.. now we live 16hrs away ive known him for almost 4yrs and he has helped me out with a bunch of stuff he is the guy i used to call at 3 am crying and he would help me feel better i have the chance to go see him in febuary possibly what should i do.. i have a boyfriend and he knows that i wouldnt cheat on him and that i love him to i just dont know who i love more
what should i do see him or not and what to tell my boyfriend
2007-12-11 03:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok yes he said that he loves me too in case anyone wants to know
2007-12-11 05:59:10 · update #1
Falling in love with your best friend is the best thing to feel in the world...But, considering that you have a boyfriend is a messy situation. This problem is something only you should know how to fix. If you really love your best friend more than your boyfriend... than you just have to face the fact and do the right thing. remember that your boyfriend also have feelings, just like you, or any of us as. So it would not be fair for your boyfriend if you also have feeling towards your best friend. It's like you are sharing or dividing your love and attention. Do what you think is right. it's really up to you dear...
2007-12-11 03:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by tasyreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the Guy even like you if he does is he willing to compromise so you all can move closer to each other if the answers to these questions are no then stay with ur current boyfriend
2007-12-11 11:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm .. this is a tricky one.first of all stop hurting your boyfriend .yeah make up your mind .be strong make up your mind.
2007-12-11 11:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by ryuken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should see him and tell ur boyfriend that he's an old friend.
2007-12-11 11:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Daiseee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it with the guy
2007-12-11 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by {[Mz.Queen]} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋