2007-12-11 03:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have a guess.
People have forgotten that what truly makes a good relationship is intimacy. It's not necessarily sex, although sometimes sex can be intimate. Sex can also NOT be intimate, and intimacy can be sexless at times.
I crave intimacy with the one I love. Whether or not sex is involved each and every time is inconsequential to me. I just want her to know me better than anyone else.
2007-12-11 03:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should never be swaping for sex in a relationship, out a relationship, or anytime. When you swap sex, you're prostituting yourself, wheather you're male or female. These swapping sex people aren't serious about a committed relationship, so don't let them and sex confuse you. They have no respect for themselves and the ones they're swapping with. A relationship or intimacy may or may not involve sex. A committed relationship is about honesty, respect, caring, sharing, loving, compromising, and understanding which all together equals intimacy. Intimacy doesn't involve sex. If you have true intimacy you make love. Lovemaking should come about when two people are married and they're expressing and sharing their deepest pleasure with and for their spouse. For different reasons a person may not be able to have sex, but that should not end the relationship when there's true love and intimacy.
2007-12-11 12:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like sex...I don't see it swapping so much as people having sex because they enjoy sex.
However some people (esp women) will use sex as a bribe or reward...I don't agree with that, but there are those who find it effective.
2007-12-11 11:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋