My husband is addicted to sex. He harasses me every day for it all day long. If I give it to him once its not enough if i dont give it to him hes mad and cranky. I think he needs help.
What are some things I can do?
2007-12-11 01:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
By the way I have a few kids under 6. I work on the weekends I am so tired I do give it to him but its to much of a good thing
2007-12-11 02:13:08 · update #1
Therapy and an honest conversation about his addiction. It could be that he likes to view it verses actually doing it. Just being really honest and caring to his needs is a start. If it is something that is too big for you to handle, then I would advise going to seek professional therapy.
2007-12-11 02:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by DIVAPRINCIPAL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a borderline abusive relationship. If you don't want to, you have no obligation to. If he's harassing you, then getting mad and cranky if you don't oblige then he really does need help. See a marriage counselor (assuming you've all ready spoken to your husband about this), try and get some help. You clearly aren't happy in your marriage at the moment, and he sounds rather unhappy as well. Try every option you can find before you even consider breaking up the marriage!
2007-12-11 02:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by icarus_imbued 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is going to have to see that love is not all about sex. Women ,even married women can feel used if all the attention is on sex. We need them to be sweet sometimes when it doesn't have to lead to anything. My husband thinks 2 days is a long time, but not necessarily an addict
2007-12-11 02:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Worm is back 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I know for sure, it sounds like if you start refusing him, he will just get it elsewhere. I've seen it happen. But, on the other hand, you deserve a break. If his love ( or his version of love) is solely based on the physical aspect of your relationship, it won't last long, because I think he will eventually tire of you and find someone he thinks is more exciting .That's the sad part. I agree he needs help, but can you convince him ?
2007-12-11 02:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least he wants to be with you. Its better than having him out catting around and or surfing the porn sites, beating off in the living room on Christmas day with the grandparents around.
There is a fine line to be walked here. This is your hubby. You need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. You should respect him and his wishes, just as he should respect your feelings. Meet in the middle.
2007-12-11 02:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your hands and tell him to use his
and err Nina I'm a sex addict toooo
2007-12-11 01:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne ahrRg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure he satisfies you as much as he satisfies himself. If he wants some, let him know he's got to do the submarine commander thing.
2007-12-11 02:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Spartacus! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG! You need to give him anti-viagra. LOL.
JUST GIVE IT TO HIM!!!!!!!!
Be glad you have someone who wants you. Dress up for him and make sex fun...i think that would help.
2007-12-11 02:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by SleepingBeauty =) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and enjoy.... lol
Seriously, you might want to go to couples counseling.
2007-12-11 01:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by John K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a good wife and have sex with him whenever he wants it :)
2007-12-11 02:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Devon R 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋