I'm 18... This hot neighbour of mine just asked whether v both cud have sex.... So that's it... I can't make up ma mind dudes and dudettes so help me out!! :-)
2007-12-11 01:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hey I'm the man(!!) and the neighbour is the lady...
2007-12-11 13:14:34 · update #1
you're 18, go ahead.
2007-12-11 01:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A red flag should have gone off. First there IS a reason why she is 35 and single. I would not want to find out if I were you. second, I wouldn't bc STD are just everywhere. No matter what you do you can't avoid them. If you use a condom, you can still get herpes. If you both get tested, that means nothing. Some STD's do not show a postitve on a test till months or even years later. Yes you can still get them even if the person has a negative test!
Protect Yourself!
2007-12-11 20:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by student 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem would be what does a 35 yr. old really want with an 18 yr. old? Why would they want to do this, for a thrill, to say that they did an 18 yr. old, to feel younger? I am sure that you are terrific, so then go get some one your own age. This has the potential to lead to problems, especially since they are your neighbor. Imagine having to see them after this thing is over, are they already married or in a relationship? MESSY!
2007-12-11 10:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Scout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the rule I go by...
Would you guys make good mates and have lots in common and have fun if not having sex?
If so I have no problems as it means you realte and most likly hes very inexperenced and immature for age and probably missing mates who have all coupled up... maybe hes been the only who could not get a girlfriend and now its his turn only hes no futher then then you.
And you are probably more mature then your years.
The main problems with age is if the younger one is too young.
Now if you have nothing in common, hes a jerk, wants to control you and abnoxious and has a repuation and history or abusing girls then you should not have sex.
if you have lots of fun together and fancy each other then just be happy
And no guys that age dont just date young girls as easy lays but say girls who have fun and lively like them
2007-12-11 15:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Skippy K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any man at that age wanting to be with a woman of your age just thinks that you will be an easy "lay". because he has already been turned down by women in his own age group.
i know it sounds harsh but if you think about it you will see it's true, after all you said he asked you to have sex, not date.
2007-12-11 11:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by wikkedmomma33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..your 18..ur legal..follow ur heart..DO YOU THINK ITS RIGHT??..what if ur child was 18 and she slept with a 35 year old guy??..or vice versa??..how would u feel..make ur decisons right..you dun want to regret anything..
2007-12-11 10:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by MoTiTi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
None unless she is married and her hubby finds out!!
2007-12-11 14:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by MadMike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weird question.....you`re an adult, she`s an adult...go ahead.
2007-12-13 21:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult and you can have sex with another adult if you choose to.
2007-12-11 22:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love them??? Does it feel right??? Only you can decide
2007-12-11 16:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by ToMsBAbYGirL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋