I wish everyone could understand this.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-12-11 00:03:35
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answered by Anonymous
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well, happiness every1 should have, bt i am very happy in my life and have a loving bfriend and family that are all healthy (touch wood) and cannot wait til my future with my future husband...
SO i woulld say money, to win the lottery, go abroad and take my family and friends with me, buy my mum her dream house and car, and money so she wouldnt have to work again as she has been a single mum and worked hard since she was 17!!! give money to charity, and gave millions of £ to helping abused animals and endangered animals out ther in the world, and open a big santuary for them!!!
2007-12-10 22:50:21
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answered by *Rhian* 3
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little ones, much greater especially, new born little ones! no longer in user-friendly terms do they provide unconditional love, yet they draw it to themselves. My goddess, there's no longer something interior the international greater staggering and attractive than a newborn! So harmless and suitable! in spite of in case you're an aunt or uncle somewhat than a determine, that's one among those good feeling to hold a tiny infant on your palms understanding they count on you at that 2d to love them and shop them risk-free. the respond is definitely new born little ones.
2016-10-11 01:16:58
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answered by ? 4
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This Q invites too much blasphemy! ;) No, what I really want is the intangible. I'd like a heart that is so deep and full of love.
2007-12-10 22:48:17
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answered by Pansy 4
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True, honest and monogamous love. Just love. I don't think that's asking to much out of life but I'm beginning to think I'll never live to see it.
2007-12-11 03:08:33
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answered by LadyBug 7
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To win the heart of a special lady.
2007-12-10 22:45:20
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answered by WC 7
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An end to greed in the world.
2007-12-11 11:15:13
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answered by EveretteDavid 5
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i would like another chance to go thru life with the knowledge and appreciation for things that I have now.
2007-12-10 22:51:30
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answered by michaelb 3
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later in life i wont be happy till i have a husband and happy healthy kids
2007-12-10 22:46:05
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answered by Anonymous
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a 100 thousand dollar a yr job in chicago,..area
2007-12-10 22:45:47
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answered by foosieboy1953 5
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