WELL I GUESS ILL START AT THE beginning....
on Friday I had some people over and my friend Melissa and her daughter came over too. I asked her to watch her daughter because the puppy was out because she was weening away from her mom. never the less she took the 7 week old puppy and THREW her OVER a puppy gate into the kitchen..! I couldn't believe it! right after that the pup wasn't the same she seemed depressed! on Sunday she looked like she was dieing, we took her to apple valley to the emergency vet and $900.00 dollars had to be put down so they could try to save her life.. i was so scared for her!
Sadly at 4:41 AM i got a call saying that she had passed away.. i couldn't sleep the rest of the night and all I think about is that poor puppy and how good she was doing until the toddler THEW her..
I have always watch my kids and made sure that they never made a mess or break anything!!!!! I was taught that you go to someones house and you are to leave there home like you weren't there.. Y!!! Y cant every parent just watch there kids and not let them run a muck everywhere!!!! i don't know how to move one from this.. can i keep this friendship?? will i able to mend my heart form this? im so sad and mad.. its the craziest combination i have ever had to deal with .. this is going to be a long road...
2007-12-10 20:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by KSTANG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She owes you $900 for the vet expenses. Maybe that would teach her a lesson!
2007-12-10 20:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should still keep your friendship with your friend. Nothings worse than losing a friend not even losing a puppy. Sorry for the bluntness... But if you can't look at your friend in the same way ever again then maybe you should break it to her nicely.
2007-12-10 20:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by bec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I very much understand since I've had to deal with similar situations. I think you would feel much better after you have talked to your friend about how you feel. They will know how you feel, and maybe they will correct themselves as well.
Hope that helps.
2007-12-10 20:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by D-vine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sure time would heal and help you to come out of this state...........I do agree that its only the duty of the parents to teach their young ones in how to behave in or out of the house and only they should be held responsible....you should keep your concious clear
2007-12-10 20:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by BigDK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend everything & if it makes her mad tell her that u r thinking of her child the way u would ur own also tell her abt da trauma and anger-true good friends will understand
good luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-10 20:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋