the way I can brake with this 1, but to stay still friend with her. I mean before that, we were best friends, she had boyfriends before me, I had girlfriends, but only problem is I want my friend back, don't like really how it is going on. I don't know does that other girl like me, but it's not so important as how much I would like to have my friend back. Please answer.
2007-12-10 20:14:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls come and GO especially at the age of 14. But friends are always there. At this point in your life you are going to realize who your true friends really are. IF YOu see her as someone important Then you need to break the news to her in a way she will understand and Wont feel HUrt by it . It shouldnt have anything to do with another girl or else you will hurt her . BE honest . Tell her Your friendship means more than anything and you want to keep things that way before something comes in between that. You are young . If The universe wants you guys to be together you will end up together ... You are to young to worry about getting serious ... BUt Obviously mature enough to think about someone else... Good luck . I hope this helps... IM gonna star your question :)
2007-12-10 20:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way is just to be upfront with her. Tell her you don't think it is working out for you to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but you want very much to continue being best friends. That way there will be no confusion. Who knows? You may change your mind about her later on. 14 is really too young to go steady anyway. Don't try to date the other girl until you have made your feelings known to your "best friend."
2007-12-10 20:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me with my last two boyfriends, but both of them pretty much hate me now. Have you broken up with the first girl yet?
Just stay with the first girl. It's not worth it.
2007-12-11 01:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by OMG Lizard In A Can! :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sit down with her and be as nice as you can be, tell her you miss your friend and that you think you guys were better off as friends. She'll be hurt for a few days but in the long run she'll probably agree with you.
2007-12-10 20:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your heart telling you? you'll have to think, you have to find out which girl you like the most.you have time, think, dont make a mistake that you'll have to regret.
2007-12-10 20:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋