If you're alone in life, what is there to motivate you?

Question

I mean no family, friends, relationship. What if all you do is get up go to work and come home, and you repeat this mundane routine everyday of your life. You don't even take days off work because there is nothing else to do.

Answer 1

Only your own desires. Work out what you want. Once you know that you can move forward. Make a plan. If it doesn't work make another one. In the final analysis, we are all alone. But that doesn't mean we have to be lonely. You did ask this question and you're not the only one who did, who has, who will. But the mere fact of a reply should tell you that others can listen and will help. But you have to want to help yourself.

Answer 2

I know for me, if I'm alone to that extent, it's not because I have no one to turn to but it's because I'm not serving my purpose in life.
There was a time when I was doing the same thing over and over again. I hated it because it wasn't what I wanted to do. I hated my job, my thoughts, my life, everything. It took me getting hurt at work and being out on Workers' Comp to realize that almost everything about me HAD to change. No knight in shining armor was going to save me from myself. And nothing was going to be handed down to me. So I did what I always knew I had to do: I accepted the God of my understanding into my life.
It was through Him that I learned my purpose--writing. I'm by no means a Christian (in fact, I'm a Unitarian Universalist), but I let my Higher Power into my life and, in little ways, I'm learning that I've been selling myself short with my negative thinking and obsessing over a relationship that may never come. But I do notice that, when I'm writing a poem or story, I don't want to do anything else or be anywhere else. I'm starting to find joy. And that--as well as a loving God--motivates me.

Answer 3

You need to go sit down and have a talk with yourself.

You are avoiding closeness and intimacy. Get yourself a journal. Go sit outside and search in your heart why you are alone. With a world full of people, you have to work pretty hard at staying super lonesome.

Is there a broken heart in there somewhere? Try to think back to a time when you didn't feel this way. What's changed in your life?

This is an inside job. Good Luck

Answer 4

that is so sad :[
you should get out and make friends!
having friends makes life so much more fun and happy
and do stuff to make YOU happy!
go shopping, get a cup of coffee, indulge yourself :]
Look forward to tomorrow and hope for amazing days.
If you expect a dull and mundane day, chances are it will find you.
Having a positive happy outlook will make life all the better :]

Answer 5

As individuals, we are all alone in life. Life is a self propelled wheel. It either has nothing to offer to the innocent, or it make s a victim of them. this person in my opinion is in a classic state of self-denial.

Answer 6

use change to motivate you =)