2007-12-10 14:52:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When you dont trust the person.
2007-12-10 14:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, what starts the pain in a relationship is lying. Escpecially when other people know about it and your the only one who doesn't. It's very degrading and hurtful. I know, I've been through it with my husband of nearly two years, and it's taken alot of time and effort to work it out.. Thank god, we're finally on the right track again, but sometimes I still have thoughts in my mind about wonder he's being truthful about what he says or not. Good Luck, I hope you can find your answer that your looking for.
2007-12-10 23:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is there because of ourselves. It is what we desire what we lust for what we imagine we deserve makes us suffer. To be in a relationship with a tearful and demanding person is hell. Thus we are avoided. Do not worry as for feeling unloved, love another person just as divine love, feed birds and be kind to aging grand mas. Love yourself. Eat a nice meal you pamper your self in a nice way. read a love story with a happy ending. Positivity brings your partner back to appreciate you or perhaps bring forth an even better life partner. Just have kindness in mind, all else will be fine.
2007-12-10 22:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by zarina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last 8 times my husband relapsed. That's a pain I never want to have again in this relationship.
2007-12-11 10:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start to ignore each others needs. Not the wants or the could be's or the outside environment pressures, but the deep basic needs that you have shown each other.
We each have them, unique and our own, and it takes soooo much to open up to share that which is so intrinsic to our being us. And when you do and they are .........ignored, turned away from, or turned over to someone else to fill it is a pain like no other.
2007-12-11 00:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three things will just tear up a good relationship.
1. Jealous
2. money
3. trust
Money was it for me most of the time as I was growing up. As I got older trust. I never got jealous be because of something i learned from my Mother. "Don't try to own something you don't understand" She told me that covered Women 100% and i agreed then and still do.
2007-12-10 22:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by John M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cant trust your partner anymore and you forgave him on more than 1 occasion trust one of the most important thing in a relationship.Also falling out of love with the you once loved so much.
2007-12-10 22:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonleness
2007-12-10 22:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Walker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain starts when you know in your heart you must leave.
2007-12-11 14:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No respect, name calling, no communication and not getting back the love I give to my partner. Controlling man.
2007-12-10 22:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by luv2seashore1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trying not to compare past bad experiences and when they never return phone calls,texts or emails
2007-12-10 22:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by stoutunicorn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋