Why do some men think that even if they have a good wife at home and great kids?
2007-12-10 13:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by italianbella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the grass is always greener till u get there, and look back and find the grass is greener where u were. but than its often too late and whats done is done and. some men are cowards and choose to run away from problems and responsibility but when they do its the same on the other side of the fence and its no different than the one they left.
2007-12-10 13:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with gto on this. most men/women start to think that the grass is greener because they feel neglected or mistreated. instead of talking to their partner they start looking and may get them selves into trouble. a majority of people do recognize that the grass is not greener.
as i say, it seems greener but still the same bullsh** just with a different person and different situation. people now a days don't want to put the sweat and tears into anything. they look for easy way outs and easy to blames. it is always harder to look at your self and see what you did wrong or can improve on in the relationship. this goes for friends, dating, work, relationships, or just in general life.
2007-12-10 21:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some (if not all) of those men that DO think it is greener need a 'kick in the balls'. Your family IS and WILL be the greatest priority for the rest of your life, dipping your wick in somebody else's 'pasture is not good!
Karma usually catches up with these types so don't be too alarmed to find out your EX now has a sexual disease!
2007-12-10 21:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Badass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it everyone gets tired of doing the same old thing night after night. Most married people learn how to deal with it,its part of marriage you live with. Like you said you could have the best wife or husband in the world but when someone new comes along and makes you feel alive again it's hard to walk away from that. Most men would not turn their backs on someone who makes them feel special. It's the women who fall for married men that causes the men to cheat on their wives they are the ones who need to keep their legs closed.
2007-12-10 21:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men think they are so hard done by...because they CHOSE to commit to being with only ONE person for the rest of their lives. After that fact sets in, they start feeling caged and hemmed in...wondering what they are missing.
For most cheating men...it's all about the sex, nothing more.
The other person's grass may LOOK greener....you just haven't sh*t over there yet!
2007-12-10 21:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont put men all in the one basket I am a good husband ,father, I appreciate everything ZI have tell her how beautifull she is give her attention, do the housework yet she is the one that thinks the grass is greener she has it all but wants more
2007-12-10 21:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by finally solo35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is greener where it's watered.
2007-12-10 23:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Salinger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men recognize that the grass is the greenest right at home. Time now for your man to see it.
2007-12-10 21:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by lynx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its better the devil you know , men are weak and cannot help themselves , they don't think with their heads , they may think its greener on the other side ,but it may not taste so sweet
2007-12-10 21:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥BEX♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they think don't have to deal with the same problems as they do with another female until they get into a full fleg relationship with that female to realize that, that they things better with you.
2007-12-10 21:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋