Allright i have always liked girls .but i just see my self trying to steal glances at other guys dicks in other urinals, sometimes i get hard and other times i dont,even in the locker room i try to steal glances secretly but i think its because i want to make sure im normal with my penis ,i find me doing this more especially when im concerned with my size.its not like i wanna have sex with the guy or anything....also if i walk buy a guy that has a nice body and is attractive i find my self staring wishing i looked atleast some what like him.I dont wanna be gay or bi i just found my self doing this more often. im 15 and in highschool does this make me gay?????
i really dont want to be gay or bi i want to have kids and a wife
2007-12-10 13:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
No, you aren't necessarily gay. Plenty of guys steal glances, especially in urinals and locker rooms. Those are the only times it's appropiate or even possible. Every guy wants to just be normal when it comes to his penis. As for checking out their bodies, it is possible you are just wishing that you want to have a body like that, I do the same thing.
Rest easy, you aren't gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that, and there is a chance that everyone is gay. But from what you say, I don't think you are. You even said you don't want to have sex with them, so there you go.
2007-12-10 13:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kurt H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are curious at this time, this is common(not sure your age). However, it sounds as if maybe you need to explore both sides to make a true decision. I would recommend you figure things out b4 you ever think about settling down. You can always adopt or be a big brother to kids. Just don't be untrue to yourself. I don't always agree with gays, however I also don't think it's fair to your future family if later on in life you decide it's not working for you and you need to explore your sexuality then.
Good luck!
2007-12-10 13:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bradygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!
This is TOTALLY normal..
You are just curious, bro.
The getting hard thing..hmm..I'm not sure about that one. I guess I was "born to be straight". I've tried looking at a penis in straight sex porn and it has never excited me...I find the female fuguire 100% erotic.
More than likely, your penis is about average. A lot of dudes lie just to get attention from women.
2007-12-10 13:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by freespirit77777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't make you gay, dude. But it does sound like you're a little insecure. Just remember that everyone has something about them which is special, to offer the world. Don't wish to be something other than yourself. Accentuate the good things about yourself.
2007-12-10 13:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt make you gay or bi, its very normal to want to compare & even wish to look like certain guys or at least have some of their physical traits. Keep doing it, there;'s nothing dirty about it & certainly no need to feel ashamed. You never quite stop checking guys out anyway, comparing yourself.
2007-12-10 13:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the known heterosexual male can stay to tell the story particularly relatively for an afternoon without starting to be a drooling fool. while you're suggesting in any different case no guy able of duty could be waiting to concentration on his activity.
2016-12-10 19:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what you're doing is appreciating good looking men the same way that women appreciate good looking women. It is just more acceptable for women to do it in our society than men. You're perfectly normal.
2007-12-10 14:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ted 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay. You are just insecure about yourself and want to see how you match up.
2007-12-10 13:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by frissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not gay. Dont worry about it.
2007-12-10 13:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not gay, ask a girl out, you'll see.
2007-12-10 13:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Paramedic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋