I feel terrible right now. My friend stood by and watched me forsake others for her, I took up for her. It seems it is her who causes the greif going around. I am wrong about things, how it seemed is not what is. What should I say to her?
2007-12-10 12:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm a sucker, I got played. In the meantime I lost real love. Now, my karma sets in as I reaize the girl is using me. What can I say to her so that she might not want to hurt people anymore?
2007-12-10 12:44:44 · update #1
If a relationship does not bring joy to your life, it is worth forsaking. When those around you are hurt by another's indifference, turn away from that person. Simply say, "I am sorry for you"; turn your back and leave. Give yourself time to heal from the hurt, then wait for someone to enter your life who is worthy of your affection.
2007-12-10 12:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like you really need to keep your distance before you or someone else you love gets really hurt , you can't take back mistakes made, people just aren't like... I am so sorry that you had to come to this conclusion so late in the game... The best of Luck
2007-12-10 20:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by stessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you do not like to be used, especially when you were there to support her & stick up for her as friends do for friends. It's best to distance yourself from your friend, since true friends never use another friend. (such as she has) I've been in your shoes too a few times & I'm none the wiser now.
2007-12-10 20:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes things are better left alone. The saying "what goes around comes around" usually holds true. So its easier to figive and forget then move on
2007-12-10 20:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by stopping the madness 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to watch Cruel Intentions.
2007-12-10 20:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by eric o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry , but you havn't got what she needs , and you don't think you ever will .apoligize again and turn and walk off .. if she follows let her if she tries to get you to turn around ,,, keep walking if she beggs turn long enough to say " I'm sorry . " and finish your walk .. after that play it by ear...
2007-12-10 20:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too vague to tell. Please give details. You are only giving one side of the story.
*Since you refuse to give details and it's obvious you're finished with her, just say goodbye. There is no need to try to impart a life lesson. It won't be appreciated anyway.
2007-12-10 20:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you are trying to keep your question somewhat short and I commend you for that...........BUT we really don't know the details. I'm sorry. We'll help with SOME information. :)
2007-12-10 20:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just because she turned on a light doesn't mean she's using you. please give details on your question.
2007-12-10 20:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by kevin77794 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋