this guy at the place i work asked me if i would be affended if he asked me a personal question. the he said "growing up with 2 gay brothers...." and at the end of a long explanation asked, "are you gay?" i told him i was bi and asked if it was because of the way i acted that he would ask me this. he said, "being around it your whole life you just kinda know."
this was all after he took his shirt off for me (which i did not ask him to do) and then sat right next to me.
now i want to know, even though he said he wasnt and dosent act it, do you guys think he may be gay and if not was he trying to test if i was by doing all the things he was doing?
i don't like him and can't see myself likeing him but if he is gay and likes me i would like to find out.
help me in finding out if you can and then it will be up to me to use the things you have said here in the real world.
2007-12-10 11:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by Rouxe *(Rue)* 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are aware homosexuality is a sin right?
1 Corinthians 6:9 (New International Version)
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9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
2007-12-10 11:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by KozyCOCOANUTS 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think maybe he was just curious...and gosh taking his shirt off that really bothers me..I mean if you didn't say that he is not gay...then I would say he is being overly forward..Why would a straight guy do that ? I can only think of one answer...Stay away from the guy he wants something from you...Unless of course you want to give it to him...If you really want to find out try being friendly with him..You know what I mean ?...If he reacts the way a straight guy would.(yelling,freezing up etc.) then I guess you got your answer..but if he doesn't well..its up to you what to from that point. I suggest not doing that at work though because you might get in trouble if he reacts badly...
2007-12-10 20:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a conversation like that in the work place is called "sexual harassment". Second, when do you work that one can start taking off their clothes? Third, if you are not interested, why even entertain the thought? Fourth, why do you think it is your place to figure out for someone else what their sexual preference is? Report this guy to your manager, he could be a predator.
2007-12-10 19:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, I don't think he's gay. I actually think he's homophobic and was seeing if you would get turned on by his display. If you didn't, he feels safe with you in the workplace, if you did, well you've made an enemy for yourself. If you don't like him, don't attempt to start a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.
2007-12-12 09:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Evadne Soleil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not know if he's gay or not...might just be curious. Why dont you try talking to him about it. Just bring it up to him next time you see him. Be like "Hey, you know the other day when you asked me this and that...." so on and so on............
Good Luck!
2007-12-10 19:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm well hes seems kinda creepy maybe you should just simple tell him that if he does those things around you again that you will tell your boss or file some sort of restraining order on him. hes a freak stay away theres something wrong with his brain if he is taking off his clothes for no reason.
2007-12-10 19:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jenica G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he openly asked about your sexual orientation, why not try doing the same. Can't hurt. Best wishes
2007-12-10 19:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, back off. I don't think he's coming on to you, but it's still weird. Stop getting yourself in that much trouble.
2007-12-12 14:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be confused. he might think that he is gay but doesnt know for sure and testing it to see if he is or if he's just curious.
2007-12-10 19:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by tweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy.. sounds like he was testing you, but no one can ever be sure unless you asked him
2007-12-10 19:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋