Well I was in a relationship with a guy I loved so much and we been together for about 2 months. At first everything was so great, it was the best feeling ever, he always made time for me and treated me so good. I loved him so much. Well then about 2 weeks ago.. he begins making excuses not to see me. He only lives 30-40 minutes away so it's not far.. but he keeps breaking plans and blowing me off every weekend. But yet telling me he loves me and misses me.
Well today I told him I was tired of it and broke it off.. it hurt so bad... and I told him maybe we can be together if he moves closer, and he goes, "Well we will see about that.."
I can't stop crying.. how do we go from that much in love to him acting like that?? I'm so upset... Do I have a chance again?
2007-12-10 10:01:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you aren't in love sweety and maybe the reason he is pulling away is because you guys are saying that you love each other after 2 months. it'll be alright, it could be worse.... trust me
2007-12-10 10:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by hunniebunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me start by saying I met my wife a little while ago. she lived about an hour away from me. at first it was a pain to drive out there on short notice, but I liked her a lot. I sacrificed alot to be with her, I love her. I went to see her everyday after my 12hour work shifts and on weekends till we wed and moved in together.
He obviously doesnt want the same kind of relationship you are seeking. He doesnt want to have to sacrifice for you, forget about him.
2007-12-10 18:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by CableMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to look at it is this.
If he really wanted to be with you, he'd be calling and apologizing and not breaking plans to be with you. He'd be doing all the things he isn't doing right now. If he wanted you, he'd being trying harder to be with you. I'm not trying to be mean. That will just help you get over him sooner.
2007-12-10 18:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Halena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that people do not love each other after 2 months. Lust is all it is. Be glad you got out sooner rather than later.
2007-12-10 18:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget about him he clearly does not like you and he does not want to be with you so stop crying and forget about him he is a loser and he is not worth your tears think about that. Chritmas is around the cornor and it is time to joy it and be happy. Take care. Look for some one that does deserve you.
2007-12-10 18:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that you are hurting. However, if he was keeping his distance from you, then you did the right thing by telling him it's over. Try getting over this relationship and start looking for someone that will fit your needs.
2007-12-10 18:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's off doing something else. Forget him. He wasn't honest with you, and you've learned this to be true.
Someday, just when you least expect it, someone great will happen along.
2007-12-10 18:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youdid fine he blew you off but couldn;t or wouldn't say goodby> He was a wimp> Have fun forget him>
2007-12-10 18:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave it up too quick. Chalk it up to experience and don't let the next one steal your heart so soon.
2007-12-10 22:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow all that in 2 months goodness maybe it was to much to soon and tooooo fast.
2007-12-10 18:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋