I have been dating a guy for almost 4 years. he proposed to me this Feb. I love him dearly. I have dated other guys so I am not worried about that whole missing out on dating thing, its that I am 20 years old and we are having a long engagement, but I am just wondering should I marry sooner, or later?
2007-12-10 09:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by CHELSEY V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Later, You haven't even been able to legally drink or go out yet! It's not the end of the world, but it is still nice to have that opportunity. There is also college and career that should have priority over marriage. If the relationship is worth it, it will make it through all of that and you can get married when you are more matured and hopefully more financially ready.
2007-12-10 09:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by steve h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your friends that are married >Then children<> Once married your locked in on you future> If I had it to do again I would of not married young> Travel go places seek happiness and explore life to find what you like and don't> it's never to late to get married>If you dated before and been with him for 4 yrs>when was the dating 16yrs old> Your still growing up>It's a big choice>Even a bigger world make a wise choice>As it will make the difference in your entire life>Best of luck on what you decide>
2007-12-10 10:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think 22 months seems like forever, try 22 years of a bad marriage. No one ever regretted waiting to get married. You have the rest of your lives to be married - take your time and enjoy your engagement. Congratulations.
2016-05-22 22:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get married at the right time, not sooner or later.
Having said that, its a lot easier to not get married that it is get a divorce. There are never any guarantees, but make sure as you can that you are ready and you want this.
2007-12-10 10:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Much later. Experience life before making him miserable for the rest of his.
2007-12-10 10:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Later. Get your education and career in order first.
2007-12-10 09:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Coop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been with him since 16 and not worried about missing out since you have dated other guys in the past?
have a long engagement please since your feelings will change in your late 20's.
2007-12-10 10:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by dot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sooner. Why wait?
or...
Later, whats wrong with waiting a while.
2007-12-10 10:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Halena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋