last night my drunk b/f got drunk and pee pee in floor in front of toilet and then tor up my handle to towle rack thing then acted stupid like all drunks do then when i took him to work he walked out and called me to pick him up they never fire him cause he is a hard worker i think they should anyways we got into it in the front yard and when his boss called i told them he is right here and gave the phone to him boy did he get pissed then he started getting loud so i called my preacher momma and she talked to him and i told her i need to get rid of him before he drives me crazy and she agrees and then he passed out on coach which he is still there. my question is i was trying to wait tell after xmas to kick him out for i have no money for the kids presents but, i am so tired and sick of this life can i wait another month to do it? what should i do when i have no money and no way of getting money for the kids? am i just screwed or what..thanks for yout help and to top it off i am sick
2007-12-10 09:45:36 · 9 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is good to the kids never hit them i would not allow it they love him they laugh when he is drunk that is not a problem its just i cant stay with a drunk no more. and they want me to wait i asked them they love him a lot. so i feel i should stay for the kids. he never hits he just a stagering drunk old fart....that gets on my nerves when drunk....
2007-12-10 22:47:21 · update #1
i always make my kids happy they are not abused at all. i dont even spank my kids they get granded unless like one time when my oldest son which is gone now when he tryed to hit mommy back i spanked him then really good other than that my kids are not abused at all.....i was abused that is why i dont believe in beating my kids.....
2007-12-10 22:50:12 · update #2
I feel that your sanity is worth more than giving kids gifts.
Maybe the gift of not having this *** in the house is a BIG enough gift for ALL in the household.
Do something together, watch a movie, order in pizza.. and make that the gift of the season.
2007-12-10 10:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying goes, is your life better with him, or without him? Only you can answer that. The most important thing to me, is he good to your kids? If he is then tell him you can't handle the drinking anymore and he has to get it under control. Your kids are the most important thing in your life, without them you are only half, so what ever is best for them. If they don't get presents, they will live through it. Never talk to a drunk, you have to wait until they are sober, if he is never sober, then out he goes.
2007-12-10 11:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahahahahaha Chris, Very funny and so True... You earn a star.. A Friend, poppy1
2016-05-22 22:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by delphine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have kids dont do it
He was drunk and he wasnt conscious of his actions
Get over it its life, its hard, and its unforgiving the least you can do is handle the situation like you would want him to handle it.
2007-12-10 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by pogieboy316 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good God... if you are waiting for a couple of weeks just for his money you are using him as much as he is using you. Taking charge of your life happens NOW... not then.
2007-12-10 10:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to social services and get out of that situation-why wait
2007-12-10 09:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is more valuable to you, some presents, or your mental health and your kids mental health too???
if the presents win then wait till after christmas.
2007-12-10 09:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by suehellen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, you are a klepto. I think you are pretty much screwed.
2007-12-10 09:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dr S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First one was correct, go to social services so they can take your children from you immediately! PLEASE!
2007-12-10 11:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by stillkeepin1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋