After I caught him, I dumped him and then he got back together with his ex. Told her he loved her.
So why does he still look at my private myspace page every night? Its been almost two months.... and he is still looking at it every single night.
If he is with her and cheated and lied with her, why even care about me?
Again, its private (i track who looks at my page), he has no access to the info... just my log on date and picture and quote.
Why would someone do that?
2007-12-10 09:20:06 · 17 answers · asked by L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he still loves u, and the fact he doesn't have u anymore makes u valuable in his mind. u dumped him and gained respect because u didn't put up with his crap, and he will try to get back with u eventually, so be forewarned. but even if u get him back, what will u have, just a cheater. he isn't any great prize u should want.
2007-12-10 10:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st the only way you would know its him is if he is the only friend on your myspace page? How do you know its him? Maybe its the new GF looking at it. Why are you still thinking about him if you caught him doin the dirty? Seems you still want him too. You should close the chapter with him. If he does come back it will be like a revolving door and you will be the doormat.
Put yourself 1st~
I'm sure you can get better then him~
2007-12-10 09:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he the same guy who wrote in here to say, even though you dumped him after he lied to you and he went back to his ex, that the only way he can see you is by looking at your myspace page every night? Think he wants you but is afraid you will reject him again.
2007-12-10 10:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back with the ex may have been the easiest thing to do if she'd have him. It doesnt mean thats where his heart is.
Forgiving is a complicated thing and difficult to do but if you'd had the heart to forgive him it might have taken your relationship in a positive direction.
Guys cheat for a whole bunch of reasons. Sometimes having that awesome (husband) in the END requires working through some issues with them in the beginning.
This is coming from a woman who used to drop guys for being late for DINNER, let alone cheating. My husband probably had more issues than every other person I ever dated...and he had an ex who would take him back no matter what. I learned how to forgive and he learned how to stop running from woman to woman. You can be firm about him changing and still hold onto him beloved...
its sounds like his heart is still with you..no matter where he's laying his head.
2007-12-10 09:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Curiosity, thats all. Be glad you got rid of him. By you dumping him after he cheated wounded his male ego and this leads him to show some curiosity about you, nothing more. Best you not read more into this cause if you do, you just might get caught up into thinking he cares when he doesn't.
2016-05-22 22:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a jerk and likes to hurt people. And he might still like you and he knows he blew it and you are never going to fogive him try not to talk to him or make any contact and meet some one that is better then you so that you can live a happier life. So move on and get a new life with someone that really deserves you.
2007-12-10 09:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's him that is looking at it, or his g/f?
I would suspect someone just wants to know what you are up to; who you're involved with, if you're going anywhere for the up-coming weekend.
I just wouldn't blab any personal stuff on the site.
2007-12-10 09:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To pry, toy, and play with your emotions.....
Cancel the thought of the loser and start dating someone else!
Let the Ex have all the drama and stay out of it!
2007-12-10 09:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a cheating liar and will do it to her. He does not care about you just wants to do it with you again and hope his gf does not find out.
2007-12-10 09:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a guy control freak/stalker thing
he doesn't want you, but he wants to keep tabs on you.
as soon as your interested in someone else, he'll probably want you back.
what ever you do - don't go back
2007-12-10 09:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lady D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋