2007-12-10 07:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If I did not have any attraction to them at all, no I would not.
I could be somewhat attracted to them and have that attraction grow, but if there is no attraction to begin with there is nothing to work with or build on.
2007-12-10 08:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont date anyone I'm not attracted to. It avoids hurt in case the attraction DOESNT come later. But usually I am attracted to the WHOLE person before I date them, not just their looks or personality. Its a package deal, just like I am.
2007-12-10 08:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I will completely admit to being visually oriented. If there is NOTHING visually attractive (to me) about someone, I won't bother going on a date. Friendship is as far as it's ever gonna get. I've tried in the past to date women who were awesome humans, but not attractive to me. It never worked. I just couldn't summon any physical interest to make any kind of relationship other than just friends.
2007-12-10 08:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by FTW 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends how desperate I was!!! Lol, well obviously, it's the person behind the looks that count, but good-looks are always a bonus... besides, the attraction can often come later. I try to give people a chance before I reject them...assuming of course I ever GET the chance to reject someone!
2007-12-10 08:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Simon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Attraction can come in many forms. I was attracted to my partner personality way before I even saw a picture of him. When we did finally see each others pictures we were both thought each other very good looking! I still love my partners personality, and have the added bonus of him being sexy too!
2007-12-10 08:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Antdak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Looks won't tuck you in at night. It's all about the personality. Because if you have a good strong personality, it makes you more attractive. I'm not just making that up. It's happened quite a few times to me.
2007-12-10 07:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I have gone out on dates with people where there was no attraction initially. Can't say that it developed later, but I surely won't allow that to prejudge someone. For all you know, tables could be turned on me someday LOL!
2007-12-10 08:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, never again. Hands down the worst date of my life that led to the most embarrassing kiss you could ever imagine. Ultimately, it wasn't the looks that were the problem, it was the total lack of anything in common.
2007-12-10 08:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Legs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, absolutely! I find the oddest things attractive and the oddest people attractive and I know that what I really enjoy about a person falls far beneath their outer appearance.
2007-12-10 09:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did! I met my hubby on a blind date, and he was 50lbs overweight!
But I just kept going out with him b/c he was so nice and sweet. And as I got to know him... he became VERY sexy ;)
Today (12/10) is out 1 year anniversary!
2007-12-10 08:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shana B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋