How old were you married or with a serious partner first time.....how is 22?

Question

22 is such a young age to be fixing meals for your husband and to have a baby nowadays...you agree??

how do you thinik?

why so?

Answer 1

I was serious at 16 and dated him for 5 years then we got married. We have been married for 14 1/2 years. It is hard begin your family. It seems like at the time that is really what you wanted. Sometimes I wish I could have stepped back and took things slower, but then I see what I have with my husband and 3 children and I would not change a thing.

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Answer 2

I got married when I was 18 years old. I'm 21 now and still with my husband. I didn't have a baby though,although I do sometimes cook. My husband had already adopted two beautiful girls. I don't think it's such a young age to have a serious partner/spouse. I mean someone could be 40 years old and still not be ready. It's all about choice and prefrence. But I was alrerady in my second year of college (started school early as a child,skipped a grade) when I met my husband who had already settled down with his own career. So it wasn't like we were struggling. It's all about choice, IMO so there really isn't the right or wrong age to get married,it really just depends

Answer 3

I agree that it is awfully young. But I wonder about the alternative, a life filled with promiscuity and the such. I'm 34 and still not prepared to get married. I put the cart before the horse and am raising two kids at ages 4 months and 12 years old. I figure once they are old enough then I will be ready for a stable marriage. People are better capable of multi-tasking. The disadvantage to that is that they don't spend enough time trying to take care of their primary tasks.

Answer 4

I am a newlywed age 34, never been married before....been married for 5 months now. But we were together for 10 years prior to being married.

I have 2 younger sisters who are married.

One was married at 22 and she is very mature for her age her and her husband are a good match.

I also have a 17 year old sister who has been married 2 times! Total opposite of the 22 year old sister. I am sure she will be married at least 1-3 more times in the next 10-25 years.

Answer 5

I was 21 first time around - married and 2 kids. That is way too young !!! I got divorced and remarried when I was 27 - by that time I was alot more mature and knew what I wanted and who I wanted it with. We've been married 20 years now and just as happy. I think 22 is too young - especially for a guy, they dont mature until late 20's at least xxxxxxxxx

Answer 6

First married at 22 , lived with her at 20

Answer 7

16 when I had my first child. 18 when I first lived with a man. 22 when I met the man I'm married to, got engaged at 25 married at 26. I'm now 28 with a husband 4 kids and 2 cats.

I think it depends on the person, as people mature at different rates and want different things out of life.

Answer 8

I think so...it would have been too young for me...I was almost 30 when I moved in with my first boyfriend...If you're 22, mature and have a good job and can support a wife and baby, go for it. But you'd have to have a lot more on the ball than most 22 yr. olds I know...

Answer 9

23 and we dated for 4 years.

I think no matter the age, if you're commited to each other for life you'll stick with it no matter what. I worked before we had kids but agreed that I wanted to stay home and raise my kids , not some daycare system or babysitter while I went out and played working woman for more material things. We sold our house and moved to a condo when things got tough and it was the best decision we ever had. We had a blast!
Going on 20 yrs of marriage.

Answer 10

Had a baby at 26 and am going to marry my fiance at 29. People are different. I think I would not have been able to handle married life or a baby at 22. I just wanted to have fun at that age (partying, etc).