Her boyfriend is very down to earth and caring but we don't know how he will take it. How should she tell him?
2007-12-10 07:46:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Her parents already know and her boyfriend is 17.
2007-12-10 07:54:56 · update #1
P.S. The condom broke.
2007-12-10 07:56:08 · update #2
She took the test and it is possitive. She wants to keep the baby.
2007-12-10 08:12:26 · update #3
Well since she's already spoken to her parents. Then she should just walk up to him and say...remember when that condom broke? Well guess what we are pregnant. And hand him the test. Give him a week to get over the shock. Cause yeah he's going to be shocked! LOL...My husband still is and it is our third child...LOL.
How long have they been dating?
2007-12-10 07:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive pal, purchase her a being pregnant test. they're around $10-15 at any grocery or drugstore. If she is pregnant, she must be sturdy and make the the main suitable option decision and look after the toddler and supply it up for adoption. tell her which you're there for her and that i wish her better half and toddlers might properly be information besides thinking that's no longer her fault. i might additionally recommend that considered certainly one of her dad and mom or a relied on person call the police thinking it is going to likely be investigated. the guy or lady who did this needs to be desperate and charged with the crime. The worst ingredient to do is to no longer tell somebody and permit it get out of control. preserving concerns in is the worst for each individual. detect a rape predicament midsection on line or interior the cellular e-e book, and placed across her there so she gets all of it out to somebody who's experienced in this. they are going to assist her locate sources she desires to regulate. merely be a merely buddy, pray, and relief her. She is by ability of and massive very scared and needs a steady pal she would be in a position to bypass to. i've got self belief it might additionally be first-fee to comprise yet yet another person so they might help coordinate any style of technique of her situation and contemporary excellent advice. i wish this permits, God Bless You and your pal.
2016-10-01 07:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some states, he could be arrested for statutory rape.
"Caring and down to earth", you say, but you wonder how he'll react to know he impregnated a child. Why is he having sex with a child. I'm on a rant here. If I were her mother, I'd call the police.
He has a right to know he's about to become a father. He also has responsibilities too...supporting her during the pregnancy, and supporting the child for the next 22 years!
Her parents know, and they haven't called him or his parents yet? That should be the next step here...notify the father.
2007-12-10 09:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Debdeb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow - 17 year old boyfriend with a 14 year old girl - that is trouble right there - just tell him point blank but not when a lot of people are around -
2007-12-10 08:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Me me me me me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should just tell him what happened. it's his responsibility as much as here. and i suggest she talk to her parents and get some counseling and some medical information so that she knows what her options are. abortion, adoption, keeping the baby? and talk to her doctor about contraception, the pill, the patch, condoms, the morning after pill, etc. good luck toy our friend and tell her to be more careful.
2007-12-10 07:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i feel for your friend
she must be going through a tough time right now so im glad to see your there for her for support when she most needs it :).
first off her parents need to know ... i can understand that will be hard to say but she must tell them. she needs to tell her boyfriend straight out and tell her what she wants to do.
he might take it badly at first but if he truly cares about her he'll be there for her and respect her descion. p.s this is illegal and im sure the police will have something to say about it im afraid
xxxx
2007-12-10 08:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. It was a choice they accepted when they decided to have sex. she should tell him what she wants to do or what her options (adoption, abortion and parenting) and fears are. discuss what they want but ultimately it is her body and her desicion what to do with the pregnancy. Then ask him to be with her when she tells her parents and his.
good luck and please next time be safe. condoms and birth control.
2007-12-10 07:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya......she's REALLY got more to worry about than how her boyfriend will take it. At 14 boyfriends are quite disposable. How about her parents' reaction?
What about the rest of her life?
Sorry, but if he freaks, so what? She's got bigger probs.
2007-12-10 07:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by benvanzile 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's really not your problem or responsibility. Just encourage her to tell him ASAP, and get it over with.
Wouldn't she rather he heard it from her, than from his parents? Because if her parents know, his are going to know very very soon now. If they don't already.
2007-12-10 08:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by helene 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have her tell her boyfried gently and calmly. He might kind of freak out, but if he's caring he will understand that It was a mistake, and will try and get trew it
2007-12-10 16:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋