Am I ugly? I can never get a boyfriend...?

Question

So I asked this yesterday, but I decided to add more recent pictures as well so Im sorry if you already saw this.
I know this is pathetic... but I really want to know, Im sick of wondering. Please tell me the truth, Im sick of ppl lying to me.

http://s28.photobucket.com/albums/c207/h...

Some of them are really blurry, so sorry.

Here are more pictures, more recent and I want your guys' opinion. And in fact I have been told that I am really ugly sincerely by a few ppl. And the thing is, ppl always tell me that my personality is great, so I dont understand.


http://s28.photobucket.com/albums/c207/h...

try these links instead

http://s28.photobucket.com/albums/c207/hotpurplecats/Random/?action=view&slideshow=true

http://s28.photobucket.com/albums/c207/hotpurplecats/Yeah/?action=view&slideshow=true

Answer 1

first of all, you're pretty and im being honest with you. I wouldn't lie to you because there's no point in it. I don't even know you =] The thing is, just because you can't get a bf doesn't always mean you're ugly. That's not true, just look at it as they're too blind to see what ya have. Don't always be concerned about the way others look at you. There's no point in trying to change yourself to look good and impress everyone you walk pass. If everyone really cared about how they look to every individual....we'd all be in front of mirrors everywhere we go.

Answer 2

You're definitely not ugly, but you definitely lack confidence and/or you definitely need attention. If you need too much attention, psychologically it's a fact that boys will avoid you. If you lack confidence, it's also psychological fact that boys will avoid you.

Don't concern yourself with whether you're pretty or not. Exude and ooze confidence while keeping in mind that being confident is not the same thing as being egotistical. The confident person thinks through ideas and concepts, then acts on them in a decisive manner. If they're wrong, the confident person will calmly look back on what went wrong and how they can correct their action in the future. The cocky/egotistical person will take a course of action, just "because" and/or they know they are "just that capable".

Keep in mind you'll be a more of a whole individual when you don't need others to give you attention. Accept compliments graciously and avoid begging for them, if at all possible. There's nothing wrong with desiring compliments so you don't need to twist your feelings.

Lastly, don't do what everyone is doing. Do what you really want to do inside once you talk to your parents and do your own research. People, ultimately, will respect you far more then.

Answer 3

ok first im gonna say I hope your not asking this to get an ego boost because your fishing for comments and already know your not ugly. now if your serious.......your not ugly at all! Thats rediculous. I have seen some ugly girls and your not one of them. Maybe some new make-up styles or hair styles will make you feel better but i would get far away from those a**holes as possible. they just want to bring you down. From my experience if YOU think your hot and YOU put out the confidence and the "i know im pretty" attitude then more people will catch on. Im not the prettiest girl ever but i never had low self asteem and i had confidence in the good looks i did have and i NEVER had a problem getting a man. convince yourself and youll convince others!!

Answer 4

OMG girl. You aren't ugly! You're cute! You look pretty young, so I wouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend right now! They are a pain in the a#% most of the time anyway. The right guy will come along. I used to feel the same way as you and now I have been in non-stop relationships for 8 years now. One thing that might help is to quit thinking you are ugly! You need to have a high self-esteem! Guys like that!

Answer 5

I don't think you're ugly at all. This is coming from another female so I don't know if its the opinion you want, but you're very pretty.

Everybody has a different view of beauty, and although it shouldn't matter, people tend to base opinions on people who they personally don't find attractive.

As to the boyfriend thing, I don't know what to tell ya. No one can really give the right advice for getting a boyfriend. Just wait it out, I'm sure you'll find a great guy one day.

Answer 6

You are not ugly at all but I think you may be insecure. Anyone as pretty as you are that has to ask people on this site if you are ugly has a problem. You know what you see when you look in the mirror. Maybe you have another problem. Do you have bad breath or bad language (cursing) that is a turn off for some people. Are you a smart mouth. It may not be your looks that is keeping the boys away. Think about it.

Answer 7

This question indicates a hole that cannot be filled with positive comments about your looks. Some people will tell you that you look fine, but the good feeling this gives you will not last. If you keep trying to scratch this itch, it will just get worse. Set some goals that are not about appearance, or getting other people's approval. Base your self-esteem on knowing that you come through for yourself.

As Fergie said "It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightening out to do."

Answer 8

you are pretty!

definitely not ugly
your hair is lush

you've been told that your ugly by some people?

really?

fact is
you meet people like that
self obsessed shallow people,
who look like a dogs buttock and don't know what real beauty is

you're stunning
and not just on the outside
you can tell that you're such a nice person too

i like the picture where your sitting on the stairs with your mouth open, shows personality :), like you don't have to pout on pics like some people.


i really know how you feel
i feel so ugly
i don't get anyone round here
except for when im away, without my friends and that

Answer 9

If people have told you that you're ugly, it's because they are jealous. You are absolutely beautiful. I wouldn't change a thing about you. You have a beautiful smile, eyes,figure,and your outgoing personality shows through , like fireworks on the fourth of July. So stop worrying, you have nothing to worry about. I think if anything the boys are feeling intimidated by your looks, and are afraid you won't give them the time of day. If you think a guy is interested in you, but he hasn't come over, walk up and introduce yourself, and start up a conversation. If he starts warming up to you, then you know that was it. But don't give up your morals to get a guy. Sex isn't about love, when you're young . It is something a guy wants and he'll promise you love if you have sex, but just say, if you love me , you'll wait til I know that we are going to be together for a while and commit to each other. Otherwise, if your in a hurry, you're not the guy for me. Trust me, that the right guy will want you in his life just because he can't stand not having you in it. Walking with him, talking with him, going on dates, hanging out with friends together, doing activities together. You don't give yourself enough credit. You really have a lot to offer the right guy, but enjoy being the beautiful young woman you are, and enjoy life and living. You have plenty of time for boys.

Answer 10

Why are you fishing for compliments? You shouldn't worry about what people think you look like, all that matters at the end of the day is what is on the inside. Looks change, but your personality can last forever. If you stop being so superficial, then maybe you will be able to get someone.