ok, i had three boyfriends before my last one which is the fourth now, he is my husband, any ways my first three boyfriends, never lasted that long inside of me, and never made me have an orgasm, and i never really felt anything with them, no pleasure, maybe i thought i did becuz i loved them, but i really didn't, the first time ihad sex with my fourth boyfriend, he went in, it hurted, and while he was going in, he told me that i was still a virgin, and to be hones i never bled before and this time i did, and i had my first orgasm, why did it hurt?
2007-12-10 05:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It could be because with the other three guys they never broke your hymen. Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
2007-12-10 06:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though your hymen ruptured that time, causing some pain and mild bleeding. For some women, this happens after prior sexual experiences have already taken place; in effect, the hymen has stretched before breaking. However, this is unrelated to orgasmic experience.
2007-12-10 13:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with the previous b/f's, you were not a virgin when #4 went into you.
Maybe the first three were small?
Maybe #4 (hubby) is big!
2007-12-10 14:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like size maybe the issue also maybe physically you weren't as relaxed with him as you were with the others. i know myself if its just sex i really don't feel that nervous therefore am more relaxed in the situation but with my husband were it was more right from the beginning he wasn't the largest I've had but it was i little uncomfortable because i wasn't as relaxed and yes i also had my first orgasm with my husband maybe it's just mind over matter
2007-12-10 13:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by gigglesdarbar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You weren't still a virgin if you had sex with 3 guys. He's probably just much bigger than the other guys are.
2007-12-10 13:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Krissy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well was your fourth larger than your first three??? And does he last longer??? Those can be determining factors.
2007-12-10 13:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa A 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you had little tiny penis' before which did not reach or break your hymen....
I'm glad you finally had an orgasm, thats great!
2007-12-10 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by ... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
is there a size difference between him and the others?
2007-12-10 13:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't even sure if you've actually had sex, then you are too freaking young to be having it.
2007-12-10 13:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
yeah..i guess you were a bit of a virgin..somehting like there was no complete break of some membrane
2007-12-10 13:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by banzaiii 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋