2007-12-10 05:31:57 · 44 answers · asked by Lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to give him his space, and be as kind as possible. Talk in a soothing voice, don't be short tempered. Don't become moody yourself, basically. Don't let his bad mood bring you down. Be selfless and tender. Try to understand what he's going through and cater to him.
2007-12-10 05:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My husband is a moody man, and he tells me that I am the one that is moody. I deal with it my taking time during our mood swings to enjoy the quiet. I read, browse the Internet, talk on the phone to everyone laughing out loud to ignore his "I don't want to talk to you" mood. I beautify myself, with what I call feel goods ie, hair, nails, etc., when he is in a nasty mood, and want to pick arguments, or avoid giving me some much needed attention. I leave the house and go visit family or do something like just enjoy the real blessing of life and the fact that you can't change anyone, you have to change your point of view and how you should always turn a negative into a positive, and become the recipient of your treats. Be strong and stay focused.....
2007-12-10 06:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by jackie ms 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what has him moody in the first place. If it is sex, then there is only one way to fix that. Money? Talk everything over. Usually it is either money or sex that gets a man moody, ask him and proceed with caution.
Good luck!!!
2007-12-10 05:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with a moody man is to not deal with him.
2007-12-10 05:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by arichter399 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't and they are unchangeable. You deal with them by either accepting their mood swings and just living with them or not accepting them and moving on. You have to decide how annoying it is for your man to be so moody. Personally, I absolutely hate moody men. My ex is extremely moody. One minute he is laughing and joking with you and the next he is Mr. silent/nothing is funny man. It drives me nuts. That is one of the reasons that me and him are not together and probably will never get back together.
2007-12-10 05:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just deal the best you can. I am not sure if you can do anything but ignore it. That is what my grandmother always told me. Just realize it isn't your fault and don't feed into the moodiness....
2007-12-10 05:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Radertastic 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
carefully,
my other half is sometimes less than easy to get on with and moody, i made the huge mistake of pandering to him, spoiling him a bit, trying to cheer him up and get him out of his miserable mood.
huge mistake !!!
this has become a pattern and i find myself spending all my time and energy pandering to him and trying to keep him happy, he then accuses me of treating him like a child and we end up arguing.
however he still expects to be spoilt and pandered to.
with hindsight i should have just left him to get over his mood by himself and kept the spoiling and nice stuff for when he was being nice.
good luck, despite his sometime moodiness the rest of The time he's worth it
x
2007-12-10 22:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gyp77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna have to go with "leave the building" for as long as possible. Get away from him and that sucky mood. Give him space and nothing to push up against until the mood passes over.
2007-12-10 05:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ignore my boyfriend when he is moody and try not to let him get me down.
2007-12-10 05:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by tarie75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's too moody you tell him how much it bothers you and you'd like him to lighten up a bit.
It also depends on if you're married to him or not.
If he's just your boyfriend I would leave.
2007-12-10 05:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋