Is it possible for a woman to enjoy it?
Do some women have rape fantasies?
2007-12-10 03:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
yes, it is the worst thing besides murder to have happen to you.
no, it is NOT possible for a woman to enjoy it.
possibly some women fantasize about being tied up, or submissive in some way, but in a fantasy, you are in control of what happens. NO ONE would actually enjoy being raped. if you enjoy something, you are consenting to it, and you are not being raped.
2007-12-10 03:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by halloweenie 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
a woman can have an orgasm during the rape or get aroused, but because of this feeling she can feel more ashamed and embarrassed. I've read so many survivor stories and I know what happens in rape.
I wouldnt call them rape fantasies. its just more rough sex. as long as its safe, sane and consensual, then its all okay. I dont see any problem if someone likes to be tied to the bed. rape fantasies are normal, they just have a wrong name.
and yes, its very frightening. my friend starts shaking when someone mentions the word rape. it happened when she was a child but she still didnt recovered.
think if the tornado comes and ruins everything. but after the tornado leaves, there's still a strong wind. that happens in rape, a victim never forgets, even when she gets old and she has grandchildren, she or he is still looking for the person that was before the rape. its just like if you would try to remember how your house looked like before the tornado ruined it.
2007-12-11 08:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by baywatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do not have fantasies about being raped by an overpowering stranger who threatens them with death if they do not comply. They do NOT enjoy it. Rape is assault, an attempt by the rapist to control, overpower, or humiliate a victim. It is not about lust or love. That isn't very arousing in my book. So-called "rape" fantasies have to do with being submissive to someone you know and trust. There is no actual "rape", just strong desire. Your question is what is REALLY frightening.
2007-12-10 17:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by peachyone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're an Idiot. Rape is a violation, and its an act of violence. Enjoy it? what the hell kind of question is that.
Some women do fantasize and act out rape scenarios, but its fantasy and its NOT rape. they are giving consent.
2007-12-11 10:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no they dont enjoy it and the only rape fantasy they have is with someone they know be it bf/husband i dont think they think about a stranger raping them or hurting them fiscally
2007-12-10 14:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by john c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not fun it is scary some people have rape fantasy just like some people like being choked but that is a controlled thing if thy are not asking for it it is scary
2007-12-10 11:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raped and I could never imagine any woman wanting it or fantasizing about it. But sadomasochism might be close to it...
2007-12-10 13:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
real situations of it are not fun! some women do have fantasies of it though because they themselves find sex taboo and therefor those fantasies take the blame off of the woman.
2007-12-10 12:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Glitz 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It was the most terrifying experience of my entire life.
2014-08-28 15:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape isn't rape if you say surprise first
2007-12-10 12:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋