If someone (whether male or female) thinks of cheating... in your mind, is that just as bad as having cheated?
Just curious. I watched, "I think I love my wife," and he almost went all the way...
2007-12-10 03:18:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have seen that movie and I would of still left him if I found out about it. Almost is close enough for me. On the other hand fantasizing about being with other people and actually planning on cheating are 2 different things to me. I fantasize about other people but I would never cheat.
hugs girlie!
2007-12-10 05:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Big momma panties! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I slept with you ma dear, seeing as how you are a female, do you think my fiance would think it was cheating?
I just wondered. He told me he'd like to watch. And I can't pass up a good opportunity to make a pass at you! Heh
No it's not as bad as actually doing the deed, but it's still sort of a gateway into how serious they are thinking about cheating, and if they have made up their mind to do so. However, if the person is just fantasizing about another person, and that is all, well, it's not exactly doing anything wrong.
2007-12-10 04:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking.....doing....she thinking I did due to low self esteem or some bad salmon she had the night before....the result is all the same....
For a guy it really doesn't matter....We get ridiculed and emotionally slaughtered.
Nothing like that look in her eye when I come home from work, where apparently she dreamt that I was having waaaay to much sex....
I look at it like this....If I'm going to have to deal with the repercussions anyway, whats the difference?
I LOVE having to make up for things I theoretically did last night in your dreams....
This is why I think the only answer is to stay perpetually single.
There is indeed a HUGE difference between what you think and what actually happened....and for that matter....an even bigger difference between what I imagine and what I actually do....
If I had to pay for every thought that passed through my head....I'd be in prison till I was a little over 480 years old.
2007-12-10 04:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can get angry with someone for thinking something (as much as you might want to) so it's not as bad as cheating outright.
If they think it and then make the decision not to, or just dismiss the thought completely I don't think they deserve a medal or a pat on the back.
I'm not making any sense am I? Maybe I should watch the movie so I know what exactly your talking about lol
2007-12-10 03:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rissa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is tempted, why deny it? Didn't you ever looked at a man thinking how handsome and pluck he seemed? Didn't married men look a movie only because there's Angelina Jolie in it?
The thing is resist to the tempation. If a man sees his buxom secretary, finds her very attractive, thinks even for a moment to take her out, buy her a dinner than get his way into her pants, but then he goes home, does a cold shower than kisses his wife, is still fine in my book. If the buxom secretary thinks how fun it would be having sex with her boss right in the toilet, but then shakes her head and walks quietly in her boyfriend's car, is still fine in my book.
If they do sex together, then they still kiss his wife him, go away with her bf her as nothing happened, that would be bad.
2007-12-10 03:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by qzmaster591 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this one...A guy thinks of cheating on nearly a daily basis. Too many temptations happen naturally, beyond his control most times.
It's the men who know how to control it and tell themselves how much they truly love their mate who are okay, even if the thought just crossed their mind. A good guy who knows that he has a good thing going will listen to his own advice!
But if a guy tells you he never even thinks about cheating.....
(uh-huh) you know better.....
If a guy just "thinks" about it, okay. But if he takes it farther, he is well on his way to actual cheating.
2007-12-10 14:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kentucky Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never saw that movie so I am not sure of the reference there. However, if someone thinks of cheating, that is almost as bad as the actual act. It is like thinking of stealing. You are sort of planning it or thinking of doing it. That is not a good sign. It kind of tells me that person might be weak and in trouble in the relationship (not happy?) to think that way.
2007-12-10 04:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, if someone is thinking it in their mind it's obviously not right and it is a cause for concern - but it's not as bad as actually doing it. I think everyone has thought about it at one time or another,but it's whether or not you actually do it that matters.
2007-12-10 03:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by The Woman With You 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, that's not nearly as bad as actually doing it. Having the temptation to do it and not following through shows incredible strength of character. Everyone is tempted from time to time. We are human, after all. I can't help what random thoughts cross my mind, but that doesn't mean I am going to act on them, you know?
2007-12-10 03:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Linz VT•AM 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about cheating is not all that bad. It's just ones imagination wandering. Like window shopping. There's some things you just can't have, but thinking about it can be fun.
2007-12-10 03:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋