Soooo....let's see. i am 3 years older than him. he is first guy i've dated seriously since broke up with fiance 3 years ago. he is in college, but a partier, not usually what i would date but we click. i was moving to utah to be near bro after been dating bf a few months. bf wanted to come ..but yikes he's still in school! after much deliberation, decided he should come. he wants to run more, party less, take a break from those friends and this scene. SO we decide to go. word spreads across campus like crazy, to teachers, team members etc. i had qualms about him going cause i am older and thru college, but he had found good work out there and wanted a break. i told myself him getting off partying was more imp than school if that was what he wanted and he plans to come back, scholarships will still be in place. ANYWAY, last night, just decided to CHANGE ALL PLANS and neither of us are goin out west. stay here, him finiish school. my question is...how do i face all the people??
2007-12-10 02:33:15 · 2 answers · asked by anansweringperson 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Don't worry about it. Your lives, you two decided what would be best for you and that is all that matters.
2007-12-10 02:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? You explain a situation pretty good, but not the FEAR that you say you have. I get the impression that you thought because he was going with you, that you'll have to face people who think negtivly of that choice with him. Seems pretty, SO WHO F'IN CARES, to me. You need to grow some skin, realize that anything worth living for, is worth dieing for, if you can do that, staring some people in the face and giving them a smile is easy. If not, that seems like death. Take things HARD-2-THE-CORE! Or find out that little things breck you......
2007-12-11 02:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋