I feel that homosexual acts such as sex is not right, but how about lip-to-lip kissing, with no intentions of having sex in mind?
Is it even all right to get into a short term relationship with someone of the same sex? I think I'm bisexual and am very confused by all this and what is right and wrong.
2007-12-10 02:13:17 · 23 answers · asked by jim 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-12-10 02:39:03 · update #1
thats a question only you can answer. everyone shares different views on homosexuality. and they are all going to go with different views. i say, go with your heart.
2007-12-10 02:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by proud mommy of twins 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's OK to kiss someone of the same sex. But if you feel that homosexual acts are not right then you shouldn't be remotely thinking about kissing someone of the same sex especially lip-to-lip. You can't help what your attracted to. If your curious I would go for it because if you don't you will always wonder about it. Let your heart guide the way and don't let the people or society and life tell you what to do. That is when you will find happiness. :)
2007-12-10 10:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that homosexuality is wrong, then kisses are wrong too, don't try to cheat yourself. Then again, I'd advise against being so tight in regards to sexuality and relationships, just do what you feel for that will be right for you, even if it means being with someone the same sex just to test the waters or for life.
2007-12-10 11:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by pikapikapokapoka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right and wrong are subjective... and regardless of what some people will tell you... there is no book that will answer the question for you.
I believe there is nothing wrong in loving the person you are in love with... or having sex with the person you are sexually attracted to... or kissing the person who wants to kiss you back for that matter. I didn't get those beliefs from a book... I actually thought about them for myself.
I do think it is wrong to lie to yourself and others, especially when someone is going to be hurt for no good reason. So hopefully you will keep that in mind if you get involved with someone. Just be sure you are being fair to them and yourself.
2007-12-10 10:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by xyxoxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But why would you start a relationship with someone of the same sex if you are uncomfortable with the idea of being gay? You are only leading the other person on, since the inevitable conclusion of any serious relationship is sex. Think hard about it before you break someone's heart.
2007-12-10 10:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by JD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it isn't wrong. live as you feel, free yourself from the fear and confusion you currently feel, and try to be free. if neccesary, take some professional advice/help on working through these conflicting feelings (or "issues," as clever people say these days.)
I cannot see how any of the acts you mention could possibly be wrong. I am heterosexual, but heterosexuality has probably caused more problems than homosexuality, and since one of the things you mention is kissing "with no sex in mind," well, even chimps and dogs do that!
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2007-12-10 10:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only wrong if you don't involve tongue. As long as you are french kissing the person, its okay.
Being "bisexual", you are technically homosexual, so, I'm sensing alot of self hatred, correct?
Because a person who is mixed race, for example, someone who is half black and half white would classify themselves as black, so even though you are half straight, you are really a homosexual, and you said that homosexual sex is not right.
2007-12-10 13:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Barney Blake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing someone of the same sex and even having sex with someone of the same sex is okay as long as you are in love with them. Love is love. You need to figure out what is right for you. As far as me, I kiss someone of the same sex several times a day and she is my wife.
2007-12-11 04:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by teresacmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think lip kissing is ok if you're greeting or saying goodbye to someone. I prefer the European way, touching cheek to cheek.
2007-12-10 10:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Kissing on the lips is too intimate for friendship. Especially if it is guy and guy - yuck!
I warm and firm handshake with two guys is strong bonding.
Women doing the cheek to cheek is acceptable.
2007-12-10 10:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by |||ALL TRUE||| 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with being gay or homosexual sex, as long as you are old enough.
2007-12-10 10:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋